This post is for all the moms out there who find joy in shopping. You are my kindred spirits, those who understand that retail therapy is not only real but can also be quite costly.
Being a mom is no easy feat. We pour our hearts and souls into our families from dawn until dusk, and by the time the clock strikes 5 p.m., we often feel completely drained.
What rejuvenates my spirit? A trip to TARGET.
I often fantasize about those solo excursions to Target. Yes, I indulge in a Starbucks while I’m there. I take the time to browse through clothing without little ones tugging at me. I even relish the opportunity to try things on—alone in a dressing room, no less! I mean, who wouldn’t cherish that moment? And yes, I take my time.
Sometimes, self-care means indulging in a late-night shopping spree on Amazon. Of course, those late-night purchases can often be traced back to that box of wine I picked up at Target. It’s a bit of a cycle, to say the least.
The pattern is clear: I shop to relieve stress, which tightens my budget, leading to more stress, which drives me to shop again. It’s a never-ending loop.
Logically, I know I should stick to a budget and save. Still, here are some of the reasons that compel me to hit the stores anyway:
- I just got paid.
- It’s raining.
- The sun is shining.
- I’m feeling down and need a pick-me-up.
- I’m in a celebratory mood.
- I stepped on the scale and felt disheartened.
- It’s the weekend.
- It’s a regular weekday.
- Who knows what could happen tomorrow? (Current events, anyone?)
- It was on sale.
- It simply brings me joy.
- I’m buying for others, so it must be justified.
That last one is my favorite rationale. Sure, I occasionally buy things just for me, but most of the time, I’m splurging on my kids or things that benefit the family as a whole (looking at you, Instant Pot!).
When I treat myself, it’s more like opting for a premium brand of conditioner instead of the bargain option. Or splurging on a quality mascara instead of the dubious $2 variety. It’s not about luxury; it’s about practicality. Often, I’m just trying to replace my worn-out yoga pants before they become completely unwearable.
Before anyone gets upset, let me clarify—I earn and spend my own money. Yes, I recognize that this is a first-world concern. But I genuinely enjoy buying things for my children. I focus on their clothing and shoes, ensuring they have what they need. I get them toys when I can, even if we already have too much stuff at home, because the joy it brings them is priceless.
For me, being able to do nice things for my kids is what drives my shopping habits. Well, that and those precious hours of solitude outside the house.
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In summary, while retail therapy may have its downsides, it offers a momentary escape and a way to manage stress in the busy life of motherhood.