Tag: boundaries
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Embracing My Role as the ‘Mean Mom’: Why It’s Important for Raising Good Kids
Get Pregnant Fast As a parent, I often find myself in the position of being the ‘mean mom.’ Whether it’s asking my kids to tidy up their messes or limiting their gaming time, there are plenty of moments that leave them feeling frustrated with me. Sometimes, I even have the audacity to request that they…
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Please Don’t Touch Me: A Call for Respect in Personal Boundaries
Get Pregnant Fast I have a strong aversion to physical touch. My partner, David, can attest to this. At family gatherings, I tend to steer clear of hugs, and I find greetings that involve kisses incredibly uncomfortable. It feels strange to me when individuals who aren’t part of my inner circle, like my husband or…
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If Your Kids Say “Stop” When Tickled, Take It Seriously
Parenting Get Pregnant Fast Updated: Dec. 23, 2019Originally Published: Nov. 23, 2017 Caution: Tickling may not be as innocent as it seems. I was chatting with my friend Sarah when I heard her 9-month-old daughter, Mia, shrieking in delight in the background. “Is Mia okay?” I asked, concerned. “Oh, she’s not crying. She’s laughing!” Sarah…
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My Partner’s Porn Usage: Embracing Our Differences
Get Pregnant Fast My partner enjoys watching adult films and engages in self-pleasure almost daily, and you know what? I’m completely okay with it. Of course, we’ve established some boundaries: no direct interactions with anyone online or offline, no violent content, and if it starts to interfere with our intimate life, we’ll reassess immediately. I…
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What I Want My Sensitive and Empathic Child to Understand
Get Pregnant Fast As a parent, I see the beautiful qualities you possess. You are the first to rush to pick up your brother’s toy when it drops, the first to check on me when I stub my toe, and the first to notice when a friend is feeling down. Your caring nature defines you;…
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Establishing Boundaries with Overbearing In-Laws: A Necessity for Peaceful Coexistence
Get Pregnant Fast Navigating relationships with in-laws can be quite challenging. While it’s natural for grandparents to want to indulge their grandchildren, there comes a point when such indulgence can clash with your parenting values. This can begin to infringe upon your family time and affect the choices you make as a parent. It’s essential…
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Understanding Why Narcissistic Parents Struggle to ‘Cut the Cord’ and How to Navigate It
Get Pregnant Fast Many individuals take years to recognize that they were raised by a narcissistic parent. This delayed realization often stems from the pervasive messaging that such parents instill, leading their children to feel inadequate, unworthy, or as though they are the source of the problems in the relationship. These parents typically perceive relationships…
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Random Strangers, Please Mind Your Own Business and Stop Asking About My Son’s Father
Get Pregnant Fast As a single mother, I’ve navigated this journey for nearly my son’s entire life. We’re practically inseparable; he’s my constant companion. While it’s common for strangers to approach us with questions, I can handle inquiries about his age or whether he enjoys trains. However, I must draw the line at questions regarding…