Let’s be honest for a moment. If you were to see me out and about, you might quickly judge me as a disengaged parent. It’s a snap judgment, but I know it happens. I notice the glances and the raised eyebrows while I’m focused on my phone. But here’s the twist: I’m aware of your scrutiny, and I’m also observing you.
Perhaps we’re both wondering about each other for similar reasons. When I see you, I’m often thinking, “How does she manage to juggle everything?” or “Wow, she actually got dressed today!” My thoughts toward you aren’t judgmental; they’re more of a curiosity. Can you say the same about your thoughts toward me?
I’ll be upfront: I’m not winning any parenting awards anytime soon. Each day, I strive to do my best, yet it often feels like I’m falling short in some areas. I’ve come to terms with that, and I’m okay with it. Yes, I spend a significant portion of my day glued to my phone, but you probably don’t know why.
The reason for my constant phone usage is simple: it’s the backbone of my family’s livelihood. Every time I check my phone, respond to emails, or secure new clients, I’m contributing to our household income. Those notifications mean we can keep the lights on and afford our bills. Plus, I love the flexibility of being able to work from anywhere, which allows me to be present with my family.
If there’s one thing I want my children to learn, it’s that there are no limits to what we can achieve. I made a conscious choice to leave the traditional office environment behind and embrace a life that offers more freedom. I took the leap without a safety net, and I’ve never looked back.
Sure, my days can feel endless, but I have the autonomy to set my own hours and finish work when I choose. Have I ever regretted my decision? Not for a second.
In our home, my kids share my enthusiasm for technology, but not for the reasons you might think. There are no issues of addiction; instead, they understand that my phone allows me to be present with them. At ages 9 and 5, they grasp that my work is what keeps me around, and they’ve learned not to judge me for taking a moment to respond to a client.
So, the next time you see me engrossed in my phone, don’t pass judgment. I’m not ignoring you; I’m busy building a future for my family. If you need to reach out, just text me—I’m always just a message away. For more insights about parenting and family, check out this great resource to help navigate these challenges.