I know I’ve expressed my feelings before, but it feels necessary to revisit them as I navigate this new chapter of my life: the one where I’m officially a young adult. It’s been a journey that started with the toddler phase, where scissors were a forbidden temptation, to the pre-teen years when shorts became a wardrobe staple despite the harshest winter conditions, and the tumultuous teenage phase filled with eye-rolling and attitude. Now, here I am, at the “Oh my gosh, I’m an adult!” stage.
I owe you an apology. Right now, I genuinely feel sorry for all the times I acted like I had everything figured out, throwing around phrases about adulting like I was an expert after just a few minutes of independence. I realize now how irritating that must have been.
Leaving for college was tough; I shed tears as I watched my daughter walk away, fully aware that it was part of growing up. I was proud, yet the silence that followed felt deafening. She’s busy, I understand that, but it’s puzzling when she doesn’t notice my calls or texts. I’m not trying to invade her new space—I’m just trying to lend a helping hand, like offering to pay a bill. But somehow, she can scroll through social media while missing my attempts to reach out.
I find myself apologizing again because I can hear you telling me, “This too shall pass.” But when? And will I ever feel comfortable sharing a space with her again? I love her deeply; she’s remarkable. I even considered printing that sentiment on a T-shirt, just to remind myself daily. I hope her roommate appreciates her, as I might suggest they find a place together for the summer.
I can already predict the judgment from the so-called “perfect parents” who will criticize my candidness. But let’s be real. I’m navigating this with the wisdom of experience, and it’s not always pretty. I want to understand her as she seeks independence, yet I feel stuck in a limbo where I don’t know how to parent her as an adult. We’re all just trying to figure it out, and some days, it feels like we’re on a collision course.
Ultimately, we share the same goal: to get through this phase unscathed. We love each other, even when it’s tough. Today, I think I’ll “overlook” a few texts from up north and send some extra love your way, Mom.
Love,
Your Daughter
P.S. I really did appreciate that car—and the next one too.
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Conclusion
In summary, navigating the waters of parenthood as our children grow into adults is a challenging and often emotional journey. We try to adjust to their newfound independence while grappling with our feelings of love and concern. It’s a delicate balance, requiring patience, understanding, and sometimes, a little humor.