As Hurricane Harvey wreaked havoc, I found myself glued to the news, constantly checking my phone for alerts about tornadoes and flash floods. It was surreal—was this really happening? Was Hurricane Harvey Houston’s equivalent to Katrina?
Initially, I dismissed the comparisons. After all, Houston is 40 miles inland and sits 50–100 feet above sea level. My husband, a civil engineer specializing in land development, had always ensured we lived in a “safe” area, far from the designated flood zones. Yet, despite our precautions, our home came perilously close to flooding. That’s the intensity of Hurricane Harvey.
Over those harrowing days, we experienced relentless storms, high winds, and tornado threats. The situation was relentless and alarming. It affected everyone—rich and poor alike. Friends living in both modest mobile homes and luxurious estates faced the same peril, illustrating the disaster’s indiscriminate nature.
This was not just a storm; it was a test of resilience. As a parent, I found myself grappling with some of the hardest decisions of my life—should we evacuate? Where should the kids sleep to stay safe? Should we take turns monitoring the weather? Each choice felt monumental, yet ultimately, we made it through without major damage to our home.
Naturally, I felt an overwhelming sense of guilt. Why were we spared when so many others suffered devastating losses? I began to realize that perhaps this was an opportunity for growth—a reminder that the “stuff” we own pales in comparison to the value of our loved ones. However, we must acknowledge that many have lost irreplaceable items: wedding photos, family heirlooms, medical supplies, and more. Rather than wallow in guilt, we should focus on how we can aid those who weren’t as fortunate.
#HoustonStrong has become a rallying cry. It reflects the spirit of a community that comes together to support one another. Many individuals, even those who lost their homes, jumped in to help others. Their response was simple yet powerful: “Because we can.”
So, to those of you who emerged relatively unscathed, direct your energy toward helping those in need. Here’s how you can make a difference:
- Assist with FEMA Applications: Many people are overwhelmed and need help navigating the process of applying for FEMA aid and making insurance claims. Step in to help with phone calls and paperwork.
- Donate Wisely: While it’s tempting to give any clothing or food, find organizations that specify what they need—some even have Amazon wish lists.
- Provide Meals: Cook or shop for families cleaning up their homes, first responders, or individuals in shelters.
- Childcare Support: Offer to babysit for families busy with recovery efforts. It allows parents to focus on their tasks while giving children a chance to play and unwind.
- Volunteer Locally: Lend a hand to homeowners or business owners affected by the storm. Your labor can significantly aid their recovery.
- Visit Nursing Homes: Many elderly residents faced chaotic evacuations. Staff members have been working tirelessly, and your visit could uplift spirits.
- Help at Shelters: Shelters are inundated with evacuees, and volunteers are needed for sorting donations, serving meals, and more.
- Involve Your Kids: Take your children along when you volunteer. It will help them understand the crisis and foster a sense of compassion.
- Share Your Blessings: Instead of feeling guilty about your good fortune, channel that energy into making a positive impact on others.
In these trying times, it’s essential to remember that your blessings can be a source of strength for those around you. For further insights on navigating challenging situations, including family planning options, check out this post about couples’ fertility journeys. For more information on pregnancy resources, the CDC is an excellent reference.
Ultimately, the most significant lesson here is about community resilience. We can collectively rise above adversity by extending a helping hand.