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- Is Your Heart Heavy for the World? Change Begins at Home
by Taylor Morgan
Updated: Oct. 13, 2023
Originally Published: Oct. 12, 2023
Taylor Morgan
Recently, the cycle of heartbreak feels unending. How many more cities must we pray for? How many donations can we contribute? How many more tragic incidents can our nation withstand before genuine change occurs? It’s simply not enough anymore to feel sorrow, sadness, or despair for our wounded world. We can no longer just try to explain the relentless stream of horrific acts to our children. Empathetic parenting alone won’t suffice.
As a parent, I find myself shouting in frustration: “What else can I do?!” If we expect tragedy to cease, we can’t remain passive. The journey to ending global tragedy starts at home—right now. Here’s what I’m doing to disrupt the cycle, and what you can do, too.
Let’s clarify: I’m not here to climb on a political soapbox or ignite arguments. Emotions are running high, and divisions are being drawn. We are on the brink of chaos. Instead, I invite you to read this with introspection, envisioning the most vital people in your life—your family, your children—standing before you. That’s where the heart-wrenching motivation for change will emerge. Writing this has compelled me to reflect deeply. Ready? Inhale deeply.
Love So Deeply It Hurts
As parents, we all recognize that love is the bedrock of our existence. We love our children; I won’t contest that. Nevertheless, we also experience anger. We lose our tempers frequently. We overlook needs. We are flawed, imperfect beings. I’m exhausted; I know you are too. Yet, I’m equally weary of witnessing the rampant violence, hatred, and anger in our society.
What if we, as parents, chose to love just a bit more? What if we hugged a little more frequently (yes, even in public), kissed our kids longer, and reminded them that love is the answer to everything? What if we taught our children how to love better? What if we loved them so fiercely that hatred never even crossed their minds? In a world filled with love, there would be no space for hate. I can envision a world like this.
Keep the Conversations Going
Often, when we feel fatigued and overwhelmed, we default to placing our kids in front of screens. This leads us to miss precious opportunities to engage in discussions about real issues. Pain, grief, depression, and sorrow are real experiences that can impact us and our children at any time. But internalizing these emotions isn’t a solution. Shielding our children from these aspects of life isn’t enough either. Empathy alone falls short. Allow your children to express their feelings and avoid bottling them up. They must know they aren’t alone. Communicate with your children—always keep the dialogue open.
Focus on Yourself
Self-centered. Entitled. Judgmental. Thriving on negativity. Obsessed with tragedy. When I scroll through social media, I’m bombarded by unhappiness. Joyful pictures of children growing up and families enjoying life are replaced by heated rants and political warfare. What happened to us, fellow parents?
We seem to be conditioned to exist in a world filled with pain. We often love to feel hurt and take things personally. However, at our core, we are individuals yearning for community, friendship, and love. I recognize that I must focus on myself. I cannot allow the world to drag me down. Instead, I must lead with a heart open to change.
We need to adopt a new mindset. We must consciously alter how we react to situations and respond to others. Deep within each of us is a soul longing for love. We are human—imperfect and flawed—but also beautiful and capable of change. I’m actively working on self-improvement—stepping away from social media, engaging with real people, and loving even when it feels challenging. I refuse to mirror the world; I aim to be better for my family.
Be Their Heroes
Parents, action is essential. It’s not merely about talking or hoping; it’s about doing. Those values we wish to instill in our kids? The core morals we want to pass down? What if we became shining examples of the individuals we want our children to emulate? Our children follow our lead. They imitate their heroes. We must be those heroes. No more complaining, bickering, gossiping, or judging—let’s rise above that. Parents, let’s be the superheroes our children need.
Ignite a Chain Reaction
These endless cycles of horrific events may not end in our generation, but perhaps they will with the next. Regardless, it’s our responsibility as parents to support our kids. Change starts right here, right now, at home. It begins with us and culminates with them. Initiate that chain reaction by being the heroes we need to be for our children, so they can emulate our positive examples and spread love and light instead of hate.
I will continue to pray for our cities, our country, and our world. I won’t cease hoping for a brighter future. I won’t stop empathizing with those in pain. I will keep donating, giving, and striving to make the world a better place. Yet, I firmly believe that if we can address the root of violence and make a meaningful impact on the humans closest to us—our children—that’s when the cycle of shootings will stop, terrorism will diminish, racism will fade, and love will prevail. I believe that ending global tragedy begins in our homes, within our hearts. But we must be prepared to take action.
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Summary
This article emphasizes that meaningful change in the world begins at home with parents actively engaging in love, open communication, and self-improvement. By fostering positive values and being role models, parents can inspire their children to spread love and kindness, ultimately breaking the cycle of negativity in society.