When the first Harry Potter book was released, I was navigating the unfamiliar waters of motherhood in a small Maine town. My spouse’s job often kept him away, leaving me to explore this new chapter of life alone with our two young children. Gone were the days of office suits in bustling Los Angeles; instead, I found myself on three acres of land, surrounded by a pond, in a community of just 5,000 residents.
I fully embraced our new life, yet often struggled to find meaningful ways to engage my kids. I imitated the activities of other mothers: we’d pull our red wagon to the beach, visit the local pool, or head to the park. We constructed forts, baked cookies, and donned fairy wings and firefighter helmets. We squished Play-Doh and chased bubbles. But it was only when my children snuggled into bed at the end of the day, and I read to them, that I felt assured I was succeeding as a parent.
A friend introduced me to “Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone,” which marked the beginning of our family’s journey into the wizarding world. Unlike the familiar tales of Winnie-the-Pooh or C.S. Lewis’s classics, this was a new adventure for both me and my kids, who would grow up with each installment released. They were the ones who wore Harry Potter glasses and Hogwarts robes for Halloween, stood in long lines at bookstores for preordered copies, and eagerly awaited movie premieres.
As our connection to “the boy who lived” deepened over the years, it accompanied us from our quaint Maine home to suburban Washington, D.C. We transitioned from reading the books to watching the films and even listening to Jim Dale’s engaging narration on CD. In truth, my husband’s lack of enthusiasm for the series might be attributed to the constant presence of Dale’s voice as my daughter Carson carried her CD player from room to room.
When my husband unexpectedly left for a business trip, an idea emerged. Throughout the summer, our discussions had been filled with the phrase, “Before Carson leaves.” “Before Carson leaves, let’s try that new restaurant.” “Before Carson leaves, we should hike Sugar Loaf Mountain again.” Ultimately, none of these plans materialized. But when Daniel suggested, “Before Carson leaves, we should binge-watch all the Harry Potter movies,” it felt essential.
Carving out time to watch all eight films—totaling 20 hours—wasn’t easy. Carson was busy with packing and farewell gatherings, while Daniel juggled a summer job and a new girlfriend. Yet, as the last blooms of dogwood and hydrangea graced our yard and the air turned humid, both kids returned home to join me in the cool basement, gathered around the glow of our television.
It took us five nights to complete our marathon. As we watched, we reminisced and engaged in new discussions, enriched by their evolving perspectives. We delved into themes of good versus evil, the ramifications of slavery and prejudice, the impact of bullying, and the complexities of pride, first loves, and enduring friendships. We reacted passionately to the injustices of Umbridge and grieved the losses of beloved characters like Dobby, Sirius, and Snape. Witnessing Harry and his friends evolve alongside my children made me reflect on their own friendships, experiences, and transformations. I couldn’t help but recall what J.K. Rowling referred to as “old magic”—the profound strength of a mother’s love.
The friend who first introduced me to Harry Potter had once remarked that the story felt unjust to mothers. “The idea that a mother’s love is enough to save you is idealistic,” she said. “What if it isn’t?” Back then, with young children, we could only ponder the dangers of the future and worry about our potential shortcomings as mothers.
Now, however, I was nearing the end of that uncertain path. As I sat huddled with my children during those five nights, I experienced a bittersweet blend of sadness and relief. The mother I once envisioned becoming had transformed into the mother I am today.
Earlier that same year, after a yoga class, I had been overwhelmed by intense sobs, as if the physical stretching had pulled forth 17 years of parenting emotions. In that moment, I realized the essence of who I was as a mother, who I am now, and who I will be when my children become parents themselves. The voices of my past selves whispered, “Hurry home! Your child is here now, but not for long.”
My tears that evening didn’t stem from mourning my daughter’s childhood; I wouldn’t trade her present self for her younger self. Instead, I was moved by the realization that all my anxieties, hopes, and anticipations had come to a close. Our family narrative is a fulfilling one, and for that, my heart swells with gratitude. Yet, there’s an ache as well, for the joy of having our story ahead of us is now a chapter completed. The thrill of turning the pages as we experienced the Harry Potter saga together—eagerly anticipating each twist and turn—has come to an end.
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In conclusion, as we reflect on the tales that shape our lives and the bonds we create, we are reminded that while time moves swiftly, the love we nurture remains eternal.
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