The touching video titled ‘You Gave Me’ is bound to bring tears to your eyes.
Motherhood represents one of the most profound sacrifices one can make. The journey of being an attentive and involved mom can be both mentally and physically draining. At times, it can feel as if our identities are lost in the beautiful chaos of parenting.
If you’ve ever found yourself nostalgic for the freedom of your pre-motherhood life, while also cherishing the joys of being a mom, then this video is a must-watch.
While I strive to avoid the “Sacrifice Olympics” mentality—focusing on what I’ve had to forgo for motherhood—the reality is that we do indeed give up quite a lot. It’s not just the superficial luxuries like spa days or shopping sprees, but the more significant sacrifices that can weigh heavily on our hearts.
This moving video, shared by Clara Jenkins from Story Of This Life (and, let’s be honest, a box of tissues), provides a fresh perspective on how we perceive our sacrifices.
Personal space, quality moments with our partners, our physical bodies, restful sleep, and even the simple joy of traveling or enjoying a quiet moment alone—these things often take a back seat as we navigate the whirlwind of raising our children.
Having spent eight years with my partner before welcoming our daughter, I always intended my twenties to be about self-discovery. The economic downturn in 2008, combined with my personal choices, allowed me to embrace motherhood at the age of 30. While I wouldn’t change a thing, it does mean I had a whole decade to explore life as an independent adult.
Now, two and a half years into parenting, I won’t lie; it can be incredibly tough to accept that spontaneous adventures and last-minute restaurant outings are a thing of the past. Yet, my little girl brings me a fulfillment I never knew I needed. I appreciate who I am now infinitely more than who I was before her.
It’s entirely possible to hold both of these feelings simultaneously.
This video beautifully encapsulates the deep sense of loss we sometimes experience while validating our feelings. It also reminds us, without any judgment, that what we give up pales in comparison to the immeasurable joy we receive in return. Perfectly timed for Mother’s Day, this video serves as a poignant reminder of the beauty found in our sacrifices.
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In summary, while the sacrifices of motherhood can feel heavy at times, the rewards far outweigh them, reminding us of the incredible journey we are on.