Tag: race
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I’m a Mother of Color: Please Stop Assuming I’m the Nanny
Get Pregnant Fast “Wow, he’s adorable! Are you his nanny?” In the first 18 months of my son’s life, I heard this question two to three times each week. Once my son learned to speak, the confusion only grew when he referred to me as “Mommy.” While the question changed, the puzzled expressions remained. I…
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What Impairs Children’s Understanding of Race
Get Pregnant Fast As a mother for the past six years, I’ve observed a concerning trend among fellow parents that leaves me feeling not just uncomfortable, but genuinely upset. Some moms wear this behavior like a badge of honor, believing they are being progressive and open-minded. However, this perception couldn’t be more misguided. The notion…
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Why I Waited Until 40 to Marry and Ended Up Divorced: A Candid Reflection
Get Pregnant Fast I got married at 40, but it wasn’t by design. I simply didn’t see the point in rushing into marriage. When I was 22, a boyfriend proposed, but I was far more focused on independence than on being a wife. I wanted to be self-sufficient and assured that I could take care…