In the wake of school shootings, a wave of fear and anxiety washes over parents of children with mental health challenges. I can no longer stay silent or avoid difficult conversations with my conservative friends and family. The reality is too overwhelming to ignore. My fear is palpable: What if my child, who struggles with mental illness, becomes involved in a tragic incident?
As the mother of an 8-year-old with bipolar disorder, I’ve witnessed firsthand his fascination with guns. Despite our family’s non-gun culture, he has been drawing them and pretending to shoot since he was just two years old. His vivid imagination often leads him to express violent thoughts, threatening to harm himself or others. When he’s not in a manic state, he is a loving and sweet child—a stark contrast to the rage that surfaces in his darker moments. Most of our friends and family are unaware of the depth of our struggles because we often keep quiet about them. When we do speak up, we face judgment, with some attributing his behavior to our supposed “bad parenting.”
My son was first diagnosed at the age of five. After years of trying different medications and therapies, he still battles with intense emotions and violent outbursts. The journey has been exhausting, and despite having good insurance, finding quality mental health care is a constant challenge. Many top specialists do not accept insurance, forcing us to pay out-of-pocket for the care our child desperately needs.
The stigma surrounding mental illness is disheartening. When I open up about my son’s condition, I often hear comments suggesting he needs punishment or should be kept away from other children. Ironically, he is well-liked at school and rarely exhibits any behavioral issues outside of home. He is incredibly bright and aspires to be a genetic engineer, pondering deep questions about his condition and why he feels different from his peers.
As a member of numerous support groups, I know other parents share my fears about their children accessing firearms. Statistically, individuals with serious mental illness are responsible for only a small fraction of gun violence, yet the potential for tragedy weighs heavily on our minds. The debate over gun ownership rights is complex, but the need for effective gun control is evident. Countries that have implemented stricter regulations, such as the UK and Australia, have seen significant reductions in gun-related violence.
To my fellow citizens who support the status quo in gun legislation and mental health policies: consider the implications of your stance. As a parent, I can only hope and pray that my son does not become a statistic in this ongoing crisis. I urge you to reflect on this when you cast your vote and to support the voices of young people advocating for change.
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In summary, the intersection of mental health and gun violence is a pressing issue for many parents. As we confront our fears and advocate for better support systems, we must also strive to dismantle the stigma surrounding mental illness.