I have a deep passion for fashion. The thrill of shopping and returning home with bags of stylish finds that I’ve tried on, loved, and purchased makes me feel revitalized. When I’m feeling down or not quite myself, a simple shopping trip can lift my spirits and make me feel fabulous.
Recently, during a shopping excursion with my family, I mentioned to my grandmother, mother, and aunts that I was stepping out of Macy’s to explore Forever 21.
“What are you looking for there?” one of them inquired.
Clothes? Yes, I’m just shopping for clothes at a clothing store, thank you very much. Cue the eye rolls.
At 31 years old, with two kids and a minivan to my name, I intend to shop at Forever 21 until I’m six feet under, surrounded by all the trendy, affordable pieces I’ve collected.
In my high school days, Forever 21 was my go-to shop. My friends and I would spend hours trying on the latest styles, picking out outfits for our weekend plans. As we grew older, most of my friends moved on from the brand, but I remained loyal.
The store’s name is Forever 21, not “Be Young for a Certain Period” or “You’ve Matured, So Shop Elsewhere.” It’s a celebration of youthful spirit, and I refuse to be boxed into a stereotype.
As an adult, I find it perplexing that there’s an expectation for women to transition through different fashion phases as they age. Just because I’m in my thirties doesn’t mean my wardrobe has to change overnight. I adore crop tops, distressed jeans, flowing maxi skirts, and even graphic tees featuring cheeky slogans. My jewelry is inexpensive enough that losing a piece won’t break my heart.
When I was pregnant with my first child at 26, I underwent a significant wardrobe overhaul during my final trimester. I tossed out items like short skirts, plunging necklines, and anything that didn’t align with the image I thought I should project as a new mother. I aimed for a more subdued style, convinced that motherhood required a transformation in my appearance.
Looking back, I realize how irrational those thoughts were. I spent the first months of my son’s life feeling unlike myself. Was it solely about clothing? No, but when I embraced my personal style again, my mood lifted, and I felt more like me.
So yes, I shop at places that cater to a younger demographic. I choose stores that resonate with my personal style and make me feel confident. I don’t care if society, my relatives, or random passersby approve.
I am 31, a mother of two, and proud of my minivan. Today, I rocked patterned leggings paired with a t-shirt featuring Chewbacca in aviator sunglasses. My bralette peeked out intentionally, and I felt fabulous.
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In conclusion, Forever 21 is more than just a clothing store; it’s a place where I can express my identity at any age. Fashion should be fun and reflect who we truly are, regardless of societal expectations.