Everywhere we turn these days, we encounter lines. Whether it’s in traffic, at the airport, or while grocery shopping, waiting has become a part of our daily lives. And while I understand that waiting can be frustrating, what makes it even worse is when people invade your personal space.
So, let me address those who lack spatial awareness with a vital message: Standing too close to the person in front of you does not expedite the line.
Wondering if you might be standing too close? Here are a few telltale signs:
- You can smell me—or vice versa. If we’re within whiffing distance, it’s time to take a step back.
- I can feel your breath on my neck. Unless we share a close relationship, this is entirely unnecessary.
- You’re closer than an arm’s length. If you could easily braid my hair or cuddle me from where you’re standing, please back up.
- You catch me muttering, “You’re too close for comfort,” under my breath.
Can we all agree to respect each other’s personal space? Let’s start with the checkout line at the grocery store. Shopping with young children is already a challenge. I’m constantly reminding them not to touch everything, mediating who gets to ride in the cart, and preventing them from being knocked over by other shoppers. Just when I’m at my wit’s end after denying them candy yet again, someone stands so close behind me that I can feel their breath on my neck.
When you bump into me from behind, I try to remain composed. But inside, I’m screaming, “For heaven’s sake, please BACK UP! I’m already at my breaking point here!”
Airports, too, are notorious for long lines, especially with kids in tow. If you’ve ever waited at an airport with little ones, you know it’s no picnic. Despite my best attempts to distract them or keep them calm, they’re bound to get restless. So when a rush-hour suit stands just inches away, sighing impatiently, my patience wears thin. “Hey, Mr. Business Class,” I want to say, “You’re practically tripping over my kids. Good luck trying to keep them still while we wait. If you think this is rough, just wait until you see me trying to change a diaper in a cramped airplane restroom!”
Perhaps it’s time we start addressing those who stand too close. I’m not advocating for rudeness, but it’s perfectly acceptable to let someone know they’re invading your space. Or we could always resort to a good old-fashioned cough—watch how quickly they retreat!
The real issue here extends beyond just needing more room in lines; it’s about fostering self-awareness and empathy for those around us. Be mindful of others and don’t wait for them to remind you. And when in doubt, just take a step back.
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In summary, let’s all commit to respecting personal space in public. Whether it’s at the grocery store or the airport, a little awareness can make waiting in lines a much more pleasant experience for everyone involved.