Here’s the reality: I’m a working mom, and I miss out on precious time with my kids throughout the day. A lot of it. I wake up before dawn to get to the office early, allowing me to leave at a somewhat reasonable hour and savor the few hours I have with them. Every single moment – from the second I step into my car in the morning, (after my partner practically pushes me out the door because I crave just one more minute with those adorable little faces) to the frantic dash to my car at “GO-TIME” – is precious and must be used wisely.
Because I want to get home to my kids.
When you stroll into my office for a chat because you’re feeling a bit bored, I can’t help but feel my stomach knot. Every second you spend distracting me is time taken away from my little ones. The countdown begins the moment I notice your hesitation to break my intense focus with idle chit-chat. Honestly, if only a small-talk loop could be activated: “Yes, my kids are wonderful. Time flies, doesn’t it? Those terrible twos are something else… And I can only imagine what sixth grade will be like!” But please, let’s not extend that into your vacation stories or your dog’s recent health issues. I sincerely care about you and your family, but right now, I just want to spend time with mine.
Let’s discuss meetings, too. Am I right, fellow moms? Those endless gatherings where everyone reiterates what’s already been said, just to put their stamp on the conversation. Or those prep sessions for a prep meeting that leads to the actual meeting. Honestly, all those introductions to people who already know each other waste precious time I could be using to send out emails or unwind after a long day. Let’s not forget the hours spent answering vendor questions as if that’s “real time.” Real time is not wasting my precious minutes here.
And trust me, I understand the importance of collaboration and problem-solving, but let’s aim for efficiency.
Because I want to get home to my kids.
Managing a team can be tough, especially when you’re striving to be both an engaged manager and a devoted parent. My schedule is already packed, leaving little room for planning lunches or team-building activities or hearing your personal stories. I’m not your team mom; I’m your boss. Sometimes, it’s easy to blur those lines. I appreciate your hard work and dedication, but someone else will have to handle the snacks after that game.
Because I want to get home to my kids.
I work because I hope my daughters see that their mother can provide for our family just like their amazing dad does. He shares household responsibilities and parenting equally with me. I want them to know they have options to pursue their dreams and interests. Plus, living in New Jersey isn’t cheap, so it’s a necessity.
Most importantly, I want them to feel the immense love I have for them and understand how much it pains me to miss out on their milestones. I treasure every moment I manage to carve out with them, and honestly, we need to talk less about it.
Because I want to get home to my kids.
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In summary, as a working mom, the desire to be with my kids outweighs everything else. I’m grateful for my job, but I truly want to maximize the time I have with my family.