Both of my kids arrived into the world brimming with an untamed spirit that’s hard to define. Their movements are energetic and animalistic, often disregarding personal space and hygiene. The sounds they produce can range from wild shrieks to spontaneous bursts of laughter. Their emotions? Wildly expressive and unfiltered. They feel deeply, love fiercely, and live life with an intensity that occasionally leaves me bewildered. There are days when I find myself wondering, “Who are these little beings, and where did they come from?”
Take, for instance, the time I glanced out the window to see my younger son scaling a 20-foot pine tree in our yard, or those moments when his voice reaches a pitch that seems reserved for dogs! My older son has been a bundle of energy since day one, constantly fidgeting and acting on impulse—much to my dismay. His dramatic reactions are the only part of his wildness I can relate to, as I, too, have a flair for big emotions that can be overwhelming.
Whether it’s the testosterone flowing through their veins (and yes, girls can be wild too) or the feeling that they might have inherited traits from mythical creatures, their behavior is undeniably loud, impulsive, and unruly. They often seem like they’ve come from another realm or are untamed beings from the wilderness.
Navigating their behavior can be challenging, especially when it comes to finding that delicate balance between teaching them societal norms and preserving their inherent wildness. I worry that the world might try to stifle their spirit. Teachers, friends, and society may make them feel out of place simply because they don’t fit into a predetermined mold. My greatest fear is that in my efforts to teach them how to behave appropriately, I might inadvertently suppress their vibrant spirits. As much as I sometimes crave a moment of peace and quiet, there’s a part of me that is utterly captivated by their wildness.
Their approach to life is both maddening and inspiring. They don’t overthink or let fear hold them back; they trust their instincts. Yes, this sometimes leads to trouble, but it also opens doors for them to make new friends, join sports teams, or reach new heights—literally. I admire their ability to express their emotions openly, enveloping me in genuine hugs and messy kisses, and their fearless willingness to embrace new adventures without the weight of societal expectations.
Honestly, I envy their carefree nature. I wish I could express my thoughts and emotions as freely as they do, without succumbing to the pressure of others’ opinions. I want them to be kind and good-hearted individuals—and they truly are—but I also don’t want them to lose their wild spark. It’s possible to be both polite and wild. So, I strive to teach them manners while allowing their spirits to flourish. I hold back my frustrations when I want to shout, “Can’t you just be quiet?” or “What’s wrong with you?!” I work to overlook the chaos they create, both in our home and on themselves.
Our house is a safe haven for their unrestrained behavior. We allow them to be loud, express their feelings, and even use colorful language at home (yes, they occasionally let an F-bomb slip, and it’s not the end of the world). They can throw balls indoors, ride scooters through the hall, and engage in playful pillow fights. Here, they can truly be themselves in all their wild glory. I find myself holding my breath, hoping they don’t get hurt or cause too much disorder.
But above all, I’m determined to ensure they retain that wild spark. I genuinely believe that their fearless, passionate nature will shape the world around them for the better—even if it drives me a little crazy along the way. If you’re interested in exploring more about family dynamics and parenting, check out this insightful post on modernfamilyblog.com. Or, if you’re considering family planning, you can find useful information about pregnancy and home insemination at NHS. For those exploring at-home insemination options, see this comprehensive guide.
In summary, while parenting my wild children can be a challenge, I embrace their untamed spirit. It’s a delicate balance of guiding them toward proper behavior while allowing their vibrant selves to shine.