From the Confessional: We’re Gen-Xers, and We Have Some Thoughts to Share

Do you recall the day Kurt Cobain passed away? You probably remember exactly what you were wearing, the location where you were when you heard the news, and which song you rushed home to listen to. Was it “Heart-Shaped Box” or “Come As You Are?” Do you consider his death a pivotal moment from your teenage years? Were you a fan of iconic shows like “My So-Called Life” and “Beverly Hills, 90210,” sporting combat boots and dark lip liner while hanging out at the local corner store or partying in a field on Saturday nights?

Did you experience your first concert at Lollapalooza?

If any of this resonates with you, congratulations—you belong to Generation X. You’re not a Baby Boomer, nor are you a Millennial; instead, you exist in that unique space in between. We were the last generation to grow up without technology dominating our childhoods, yet we were also the first to understand what the “internet” was, alongside groundbreaking inventions like call waiting and AOL Instant Messenger. We witnessed the rise of CDs and the fall of cassette tapes, the advent of DVDs, and the demise of VCRs. Moreover, we all remember the haunting sounds of dial-up internet, a sound that still echoes in our nightmares.

As Gen-Xers, we are a distinctive blend of being the first and the last of many things. Although often overlooked as the “forgotten generation,” we are still here, and we have a lot to say.

H and I are both Gen-Xers living in a quaint middle-class neighborhood split between friendly young families and rather unfriendly Boomers. We often feel out of place, caught between the carefree days of youth and the responsibilities of adulthood. Oh, how I miss the 90s…

The Challenges of Gen-X Women

Gen-X women face significant challenges. We juggle demanding careers while caring for aging parents and our own children, often with little support. When we dare express our opinions, we risk being labeled a “Karen.”

On top of that, we straddle two eras of technology, making it difficult to fit neatly into any category. We are overwhelmed by the demands of raising kids in an economy that often requires dual incomes while simultaneously striving to be supermoms and caring for our elderly parents. It’s exhausting, to say the least. I miss the 90s, a decade filled with incredible music that defined our generation. While I don’t usually subscribe to the “kids these days” mindset, there’s something undeniably special about Gen X, and I genuinely miss that. For one, we possess a unique grit.

I recently locked myself out of my house, and when the locksmith quoted me $200, I hung up and managed to break back in using a credit card. I’m pretty proud of my Gen-X resourcefulness right now!

Resilience and Resourcefulness

Despite feeling overlooked, we are incredibly resilient. We had to navigate our way back home from field parties late at night without smartphones, which taught us a thing or two about resourcefulness. Shows like “My So-Called Life” resonated more with us than “90210,” which often felt like just another privileged narrative.

I’ve started streaming classic cartoons like “Tiny Toons,” “Pinky & the Brain,” and “Animaniacs” for my kids. Those Gen-X cartoons were so much better! Plus, “Pinky & the Brain” is where I learned most of my vocabulary!

We had phenomenal TV shows and movies that shaped us—hello, Jordan Catalano! And who could forget the thrill of renting movies from Blockbuster before sleepovers? Be kind and rewind!

I’ve come to realize that I’m now part of the “older generation.” As a proud Gen-Xer, I may not be “old,” but I do rely on my phone for directions and takeout options while still sending out traditional Christmas cards with stamps.

I’m a Gen-Xer who has never cared for “Star Wars.” And yes, I’ve never worn Doc Martens either. There are many of us who choose not to have children, and I suspect younger Millennials may follow suit.

I find myself disinterested in marriage and committed relationships. I’m still searching for someone genuine, but at 40, I haven’t found that yet.

Unapologetic Preferences

One of the best things about being a Gen-Xer is the unapologetic nature of our preferences. We genuinely don’t care if others don’t like what we like. When I hear self-righteous Boomers lecturing us, I love responding with “OK Boomer.” It’s our way of standing in solidarity with Millennials, who, like us, have faced similar judgments from older generations.

We’re frustrated with the Boomers, who often fail to recognize the messes they’ve left for us to clean up. From the soaring costs of education to the economic struggles, we’re tired of hearing them boast about their “hard work” when they had advantages we can only dream of.

I was born in 1980, proudly navigating my teenage years amidst the grunge of the ’90s, only to transition into the pop culture frenzy of Britney and Justin. I got my first computer, email, and cell phone all in college. My childhood revolved around riding bikes, playing with Barbies, and reading during long road trips, and I wouldn’t change a thing.

Embracing Our Identity

Being a Gen-Xer means embracing both our past and present.

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In summary, Gen-Xers are a unique generation that has experienced the transition from analog to digital. We’ve faced numerous challenges while carrying the weight of societal expectations, all while remaining resourceful and resilient. We embrace our quirks and preferences unapologetically, standing in solidarity with younger generations.

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