Dress Your Baby as You Please: Embrace Your Style

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Dress Your Baby as You Please: Embrace Your Style
by Alex Johnson
Updated: July 20, 2021
Originally Published: July 20, 2021

Can we all agree that babies are absolutely adorable? Seriously, who can resist those chubby cheeks and rolls? A baby’s smile and giggle can brighten the day of even the most stoic person. And let’s face it, dressing a baby is a joy! There’s something inherently delightful about picking out outfits for your little one. But are you really imposing your tastes on them? Not at all.

When my first child, a boy, was born, I treated him like a little doll. I dressed him in outfits I found adorable—cute onesies and pants from popular stores like Target and The Gap. For special occasions, he donned smocked shortalls with white blouses. I cherished what my mother called “classic clothing,” while my partner thought it was a bit much. He worried our son would resent me for dressing him that way. Fast forward to today, and at thirteen, he’s never brought it up. Those sailor suits made for unforgettable photos that I’ll treasure forever.

With two more sons who wore many of their older brother’s clothes, I didn’t think twice about using hand-me-downs that may have seen their fair share of spills. I had three boys under five and was all about stretching my budget with those pull-on pants! Now that they’re all in school, they’ve adjusted just fine—even after wearing footed pajamas with holes. Who really cares?

Then came baby number four—a girl. From the moment she arrived, I was ready to have some fun with fashion. Born with a head full of hair, she was practically begging for a bow, so I made it a daily ritual. Now at five, she still loves her big bows. Did I encourage that? Absolutely! But as she’s grown, her style has become her own. She adores colorful dresses and sparkling sequins, and trust me, this passion comes from within her.

My four kids each have unique personalities. Those three boys may have worn the same clothes, but they are as different as night and day. Many pictures capture them in matching outfits at the same age, and not once have any of them complained about wearing those cute bunny-embroidered onesies. Our choices in clothing didn’t have any lasting impact on their identities.

Honestly, I never considered how the clothes I chose for my children might affect them. I simply selected what I liked. For me, dressing them up is one of the joys of motherhood. After carrying them for nine months, the moment they arrive, you are consumed with love and want everyone to see your beautiful little angel. How do you show that pride? With adorable outfits! Whether you prefer 80s band tees, smocked dresses, or thrifted finds, it’s your baby, and your choices are what matter.

As a forty-something, I can’t help but recall George Michael’s “Freedom! ‘90.” There’s a lyric that resonates: “I just hope you understand, sometimes the clothes do not make the man.” Those lamb pajamas you put on your baby won’t shape their personality.

As your child grows, they will cultivate their own style. One of my sons exclusively wore blue for nearly two years—his way of expressing individuality, and we supported him completely. Your child might adore your fashion sense or completely rebel against it. That’s perfectly fine. Let them be themselves. They’ll develop tastes in everything, from food to music to clothing, which is what makes them unique.

There really is no right or wrong way to dress a baby, except when it comes to the weather. Keep them warm in the cold and cool in the heat. Beyond that, it’s all up to you. Enjoy dressing your baby in the styles you love, and don’t let anyone dictate your choices. Regardless of their outfit, they’ll always be precious and joyful—just the way you see them.

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In summary, dressing your baby is a personal expression of love and joy. Whether you choose trendy outfits, hand-me-downs, or unique styles, the most important thing is to enjoy the process and let your child be themselves.

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