Our Weekly Breakfast Tradition: A New Favorite Ritual

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By Jamie Roberts
Updated: April 30, 2021
Originally Published: April 30, 2021

Since my partner, Alex, began working from home last spring, it has shifted the dynamic in our household quite a bit. His office now occupies the kitchen, which was once my sanctuary. We all have our routines — mine included reruns of talk shows from morning until the afternoon, followed by my beloved court dramas. I’m not just a couch potato; I enjoy the background chatter while navigating housework and caring for our daughter. However, Alex isn’t a fan of daytime TV, especially the likes of Judge Judy, so my viewing habits have suffered. I can only sneak in a few episodes of my shows before he’s had enough, and I must admit, some days I feel a bit resentful about the work-from-home situation.

With four kids at home more often, the noise can be overwhelming. Although they are in school full-time, evenings and weekends are filled with their energy. I can only handle so much gaming content on YouTube before I yearn for an adult conversation that doesn’t revolve around meal planning or shushing the kids during calls. I love my children dearly, but I need time away with my partner, just the two of us.

Despite spending almost all our time together, it felt like we were growing apart. Our focus shifted to staying healthy, managing work, and ensuring our kids were okay, which led us to neglect our relationship. We fell into the routine of existing as roommates, and it was quite disheartening.

One Tuesday morning, Alex mentioned he was hungry. I was in the same boat, so when he suggested we grab breakfast, I eagerly accepted. It was the first time we had shared a meal alone in months. It felt revitalizing to connect like we hadn’t in a long time. I found myself laughing and smiling, enjoying his company. I realize now that many couples might be feeling this disconnect during these challenging times.

That spontaneous breakfast has since evolved into our cherished weekly date. We’ve made each other a priority again, relishing the simplicity of being together. It’s a time without distractions or obligations, just Alex and me enjoying a meal together.

Before the pandemic, Saturday nights were our go-to for dining out, but COVID changed that when we lost our trusted babysitter. Now, Tuesdays have become our special day; it’s marked on the calendar as a must-do. We ensure there are no work calls or appointments during our breakfast, allowing us to savor this uninterrupted time. It has breathed new life into our marriage amid the tension of constant togetherness. This little ritual feels like a return to normalcy, and I eagerly anticipate it each week.

Tuesdays are dedicated solely to us. Even though it’s just breakfast, I take a moment to prepare for our “date.” Nothing extravagant, but I make an effort with my hair and makeup, swapping my yoga pants for something nicer. It’s my only chance to step away from motherhood for an hour or two, and it feels refreshing. While I may not don high heels, I do wear my favorite red lipstick, which counts for something.

Sure, we can get on each other’s nerves in our home office setup. Alex can be quite loud on calls, and I sometimes forget he’s on Zoom when I walk by with a laundry basket. We needed this escape from our routine, and our weekly breakfast is the perfect solution. There’s nothing overly romantic about it, but it gives us the opportunity to reconnect. I didn’t realize how much I missed our outings until that first breakfast together. Someday, we’ll return to fancy dinners with delectable desserts, but for now, I’m grateful for a warm cup of coffee and engaging conversation every Tuesday.

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In summary, our Tuesday breakfast tradition has become a vital part of our weekly routine, allowing us to reconnect and prioritize our relationship amidst the chaos of family life.

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