In today’s world, where trends can be as bizarre as feather eyebrows and body hair swimsuits, it’s no surprise that professional cuddling has emerged as a legitimate service. While many of us may have heard of this concept, we can’t help but wonder: how does it actually work? Is there a certification process for becoming a professional cuddler? Do they offer classes in hand-holding or a workshop for soft caresses?
According to sources like Business Insider, professional cuddling is akin to an upgraded version of the “free hugs” we often see in viral videos, yet it’s a far cry from any hug we’ve experienced. These individuals, known as cuddlists, are compensated hourly to engage in various forms of non-sexual touch, such as spooning, caressing, or simply holding hands. One cuddlist interviewed by a publication described the relationship as being more than just a client connection, yet not quite a friendship.
But the burning question remains: why would anyone opt for this service? For many parents, the idea of cuddling with a stranger sounds like a nightmare. With children vying for attention—a baby needing to be fed, a toddler wrapped around our legs, and a preschooler cracking jokes—it’s challenging to escape the constant physical contact. After a long day of parenting, most of us are left thinking, “Enough already! Don’t touch me!” The thought of inviting a stranger into that personal space for cuddling feels overwhelming.
That said, we understand the appeal of professional cuddling. Touch is an essential human need, and for those grappling with loneliness, this service can provide significant mental health benefits. There are certainly individuals who stand to gain from this unique form of self-care, and we commend them for prioritizing their well-being.
However, for the majority of parents who feel “touched-out,” the concept seems absurd. The price tag for a cuddling session can be around $100, and many of us would prefer to spend that on a relaxing hot stone massage instead. Perhaps we’re being a bit hypocritical, but there is a line when it comes to personal space, and this crosses it. We may enjoy a soothing scalp massage during a haircut, or cuddling with our partner for a few moments before needing our own space. Yet, cuddling with a stranger? No thanks.
At this point, we’d much rather retreat to a dark room with a sign that reads “leave me alone.”
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In summary, while professional cuddling may work for some, many parents feel maxed out on physical touch, making this trend far from appealing.