As summer approaches, my family and I are gearing up for what promises to be a delightfully uneventful season. By “uneventful,” I mean we’re intentionally steering clear of any meticulously planned activities, scheduled events, or obligations that confine us to a specific time and place. This summer, we’re opting for a minimalist approach, fully embracing the Zen attitude that’s sweeping the nation from the last day of school until the first day back in August.
For several years now, I’ve felt the same way, especially when the stress of summer camp registrations and their accompanying fees began to loom large every March. The reality of entertaining my four energetic sons over an expansive 12-week stretch weighed heavily on me. After nearly two decades of parenting, I’ve reached what I call DEFCON 5 on the summer burnout scale. I’ve officially declared my resignation from the roles of vacation planner, sports organizer, craft creator, meal provider, taxi driver, and all the other summer enrichment activities I’ve been responsible for.
The good news? My kids are now old enough to plan their own days and make it happen. I’m ditching the daily charts that dictate 30 minutes of reading, 30 minutes of chores, and 30 minutes of outdoor play. Have we really come to this? A checklist to ensure our kids interact nicely? Thankfully, I also have teenagers who can drive, giving me the freedom to relax without worry. It took years of trust building to get here, and now I’m ready to enjoy my summer, just like my mom did in the late ‘70s— with nothing but a towel and some sunscreen.
I refuse to be swayed by the naysayers who insist that my children need constant mental stimulation during the summer. Yes, I value education, but I also believe in the power of downtime. My eldest is thriving in college, having spent many summers indulging in video games and TV. He’s expressed concern for peers who struggle to relax and find balance. Isn’t that what summer is really about? Those moments of simply “being,” like enjoying baseball on the radio, spontaneous ice cream runs, and lazy days in pajamas?
I believe these moments of tranquility and boredom ignite creativity, encouraging exploration and learning not because a list dictates it but because their minds inspire them. This summer, I’m committed to cultivating those moments of nothingness, knowing they will be the most cherished memories for my kids.
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