There’s nothing quite like the rush of an empowering story where a woman takes charge of her life, defies the odds, and creates something remarkable. Watching a strong female character conquer challenges without worrying about her appearance (unless she chooses to, of course) gets my adrenaline pumping! So, when Netflix released the first season of Girlboss, a series inspired by Sophia Amoruso’s journey to establish the fashion brand Nasty Gal, I was ready for a binge-watch session. But as I immersed myself in the show, I began to question whether I was too old to draw inspiration from a character in her twenties.
The first season chronicles Sophia’s evolution from uncertainty to igniting her passion, facing rejection, and ultimately achieving her goals. She builds her empire from scratch, showcasing a fierce determination that’s both inspiring and relatable. Watching her, I couldn’t help but think, “I want that kind of fire!” But then reality hit me: she’s a single woman in her twenties, while I’m a 34-year-old mother of two with responsibilities that tie me down. My days of staying up late to chase dreams have been replaced by the demands of parenting.
I won’t lie—I found myself feeling a bit sorry for my situation. I thought, “Oh poor me, my aspirations are now a burden, and my days of being a trailblazer are over.” I reminisced about my younger years when anything felt possible and the late-night brainstorming sessions fueled my ambition. I spent some time mourning that sense of freedom.
Then it struck me: I’m only 34! I’m not done yet. I can still set ambitious goals and chase my dreams; I just need to adjust my expectations to align with my current life. Being a married mom doesn’t mean I have to abandon my aspirations. Contrary to what it may feel like sometimes, my dreams didn’t vanish with the arrival of my children. They’re still very much alive, and I have every right to pursue them with the same passion I had in my twenties. In fact, it’s even more crucial to do so now because I want to set an example for my kids.
Recently, my 3-year-old son told me he wanted to grow up to be the sun. Like any supportive mom, I encouraged him, saying he could achieve anything he set his mind to. His innocent question, “Mom, do you really think I can be the sun?” was met with a firm, “You can be anything you want to be.” While he may not literally become the sun, I hope that he understands the importance of dreaming big and working hard to achieve those dreams.
Pursuing my aspirations in my 30s not only revitalizes my own sense of purpose but also teaches my children valuable lessons about resilience and ambition. Age should never be a barrier to chasing dreams, and having kids doesn’t mean we have to give up on our goals. It simply means we need to be more thoughtful in our planning and choices. With little eyes watching my every move, I have the opportunity to demonstrate that anything is achievable at any stage of life, as long as there’s dedication and self-belief.
Inspiration knows no age barrier. It’s perfectly valid for me to be motivated by a spirited character in her twenties, and it’s equally valid for me to inspire younger generations while navigating my 30s. The key is to persist, uplift one another, and make our dreams a reality.
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In summary, it’s never too late to follow your dreams—regardless of age or responsibilities. Embrace the journey and lead by example, showing that ambition and dreams can thrive at any stage of life.