There are many misconceptions surrounding Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). A common one is the casual use of the term “OCD” to describe someone who simply enjoys organization or neatness. It’s important to clarify that being tidy does not mean you have a serious mental health condition. Furthermore, not all individuals with OCD are preoccupied with cleanliness or germs. While some might grapple with contamination fears and compulsive cleaning, living with OCD encompasses a broader spectrum of challenges.
For those of us dealing with OCD, intrusive thoughts (obsessions) and repetitive behaviors (compulsions) can dominate our lives. In my experience, I encounter both. The anxiety generated by my obsessive thoughts can be overwhelming. I’ve found myself consumed by fears—such as accidentally harming someone while driving or having violent thoughts about loved ones. These thoughts are far from mundane; they often feel grotesque. The anxiety isn’t rooted in cleanliness but in the fear of becoming someone capable of inflicting harm.
Trying to suppress these obsessions only intensifies them. Over time, I’ve learned to allow them to pass without acting on them. While many associate OCD with excessive handwashing, my own rituals are quite different. I don’t obsess over sanitizing surfaces or avoiding germs. In fact, I believe that exposure to bacteria is beneficial for our immune systems. I’m the person who enjoys getting dirty, sweating, and even using my shirt as a tissue—much to the surprise of those who think having OCD means being obsessively clean.
I’ve had friends get into my somewhat cluttered car and remark, “I thought you had OCD. This is disgusting!” To clarify, my car isn’t that bad. But yes, my compulsions can be quite unappealing. These behaviors are not enjoyable; they’re driven by an urgent need to relieve anxiety, akin to a toxic pressure that only dissipates through the act of completing the ritual. This release, however, is temporary, and the underlying anxiety often returns.
One of my more puzzling rituals involved an obsession with smelling my dog’s waste. After cleaning it up during walks, I would find myself bringing the bag to my face repeatedly, inhaling deeply despite the unpleasant odor. This behavior wasn’t about checking for illness or enjoyment; it was compulsive. It took a while for me to share this with my therapist, and understanding that it was simply a part of my OCD helped me work through it.
I’ve engaged in behaviors that many would find revolting—picking at my skin, touching things others would avoid, or enduring unsanitary conditions just to relieve an obsessive urge. My anxiety can lead me to sit in a porta-potty, holding my nose for an extended period, convinced that I need to relieve myself even when my bladder isn’t full.
In essence, OCD can feel like being trapped in a chaotic and dark place. It’s not about maintaining order or keeping things spotless; it’s about grappling with an uncontrollable mind. For me, OCD is a struggle for control in a life that often feels messy and overwhelming.
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In summary, OCD is a complex disorder that goes beyond the stereotype of being overly neat or germophobic. It can manifest in diverse and often distressing ways, far removed from the misconception that it’s solely about cleanliness.
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