Parenting
Why I’m Taking a Solo Getaway: I Deserve It
by Emily Carter
Updated: May 13, 2019
Originally Published: May 10, 2019
For the last ten years, I’ve devoted myself to being a stay-at-home mom to four wonderful children. There have been countless times when I felt like I was navigating this journey solo, especially with my partner being away for work for weeks, months, or even longer. I’ve tackled sleepless nights, managed extensive homeschooling sessions, and dealt with piles of laundry and dishes. I’ve played the roles of disciplinarian, comforter, decision-maker, organizer, meal planner, chauffeur, homework supervisor, and mediator. You get the idea—being a mom is a full-time job.
I genuinely love my role, and I am committed to it, but let’s be honest: I am exhausted. Sometimes, a mom just needs a break from all the chaos. And I’m not talking about a quick grocery run (though those moments can feel like mini-vacations); I mean a real escape from the weight of responsibility.
I mention this because, to my astonishment, I faced criticism from those I thought would support my decision when my partner surprised me with a four-day solo vacation. Yes, four days and three nights of freedom! I was thrilled when he said, “Go ahead, I’ll take care of the kids.”
Yet, when I shared the news, I was met with questions like, “Why would you leave your family?” “Are you feeling alright?” “Four days?” and “Why fly so far?”
Here’s why I am absolutely looking forward to my time away from the family:
- I get to fly solo—no extra clothes, snacks, or toys to worry about. Just me, a good book, and maybe a glass of wine. Sounds perfect, right?
- I’ll check into a hotel where I won’t have to constantly shush any loud conversations or stomping feet. I might just spend four days in my room enjoying the peace and quiet.
- I can finally sleep in. Realistically, I’ll probably still wake up early, but I won’t have to coax anyone else into silence until they wake up.
- I don’t have to entertain anyone! No searching for restaurants, no watching sports on TV, and no managing someone else’s boredom. It’s just me and my own preferences.
- I can read an entire book—or maybe three! I can enjoy hot meals without interruptions, shower without an audience, and even take a bathroom break in peace. The thought of it is exhilarating!
Honestly, I’m not even sure what I’ll do with my time, but I know I’ll cherish every moment. I will miss my family and probably worry about how they’re doing, even against my best efforts not to. But I refuse to feel guilty for taking this time for myself, regardless of what anyone else thinks.
If you find yourself relating to my desire for a break, you are not alone. Here’s to all the hardworking moms who deserve a moment of respite—whether it’s a quick trip to Target, a spa day, or a lengthy getaway. Taking time to recharge is essential for us to be the best versions of ourselves. Cheers to you, fellow moms!
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Summary
Taking a solo vacation as a mom is not only deserved but also necessary for recharging and returning to family life refreshed. Despite facing criticism from others, this time away is a celebration of self-care and a well-earned break from the numerous responsibilities that come with motherhood. Whether it’s a day at the spa or a weekend retreat, every mom should have the chance to enjoy some time for herself.
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