Being a mother is a true joy. The happiness and fulfillment I’ve experienced from raising my two children is unmatched. They’re entertaining, kind, and, if I do say so myself, quite clever as well. However, this Mother’s Day, I’ve decided to celebrate my role as a mom by taking a day off from parenting.
Yes, you heard me correctly! This Mother’s Day, it’s a kid-free zone.
While my kids are undeniably amazing, they can also be demanding and, on occasion, a bit difficult. Even if their dad is right by their side, they seem to have an uncanny ability to seek me out for the most trivial questions—like whether they can have a granola bar—just when I’m trying to enjoy some much-needed alone time. It happens every. single. time.
My husband, a fantastic guy in many aspects, isn’t exactly the best at planning surprise pampering sessions for me. He might whip up something sweet with the kids, like breakfast in bed, or take our daughter to one of my favorite shops for a gift. Those moments are cherished, but in reality, they only last about 30 to 45 minutes. After that, I’m back to my duties of referee and sandwich maker for the rest of the day.
This year, I’m saying: Not. This. Year.
I’m determined to carve out a day just for myself, indulging in the activities I love without the family. Does that sound selfish? Good, it should.
Let’s take a cue from how we treat dads on Father’s Day. What do we do for them? We send them off for a day of relaxation, right? We might take the kids to the zoo or park, allowing them some peace and quiet. It’s all about giving them a break.
I know a dad who actually scheduled a massage on Mother’s Day so his wife could spend quality time with the kids. Seriously, that’s a true story!
Reflecting on last year’s Mother’s Day, I realized that the day felt remarkably similar to any other day. I found myself cleaning up after everyone, making lunches, loading the dishwasher, and mediating screen-time disputes. My husband might have even spent part of the day at the office (not surprising for an entrepreneur with endless tasks). By the end of the day, I felt a bit let down and, frankly, disappointed.
I often build up these special occasions in my mind, waiting for someone (my husband, in this case) to fulfill my imagined expectations. To be fair, it’s hard for him to meet those fantasies, especially since I often don’t communicate them.
What I really need to accept is that if I’m waiting for someone else to offer me a break, I’ll be waiting a long time. The responsibility lies with me to make that break happen—without feeling guilty. After all, do dads feel guilty spending five hours on the golf course for Father’s Day? Do they fret over how things are going back home while fishing? No, they don’t—and they shouldn’t!
So, let’s embrace what we deserve and enjoy it fully!
This Mother’s Day, you won’t find me at the park with my kids or visiting local attractions for some “family fun.” Instead, I’m picking up my mom, who is also my biggest supporter, and we’re off for a girls’ day filled with lunch, shopping, and all the fun we can handle! I’m leaving my family at home for several hours to do the things I love. After all, I know that as long as my kids are around, I won’t get the much-deserved break that all mothers should enjoy on this special day.
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In summary, this Mother’s Day, I’m prioritizing self-care and taking a well-deserved break from the demands of parenting. It’s time to celebrate motherhood on my terms!
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