The Trend of Decluttering: What’s Lacking in the Conversation

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For the past year, my social media has been flooded with posts from friends embracing the decluttering trend. They proudly display overflowing trash bags filled with items destined for donation or the curb. “Look at all this stuff I’m tossing out! And this is just from two closets, haha! Off to the dump! Getting rid of things feels AMAZING! Yayyy!”

The allure of decluttering is undeniable—who wouldn’t appreciate a neatly organized junk drawer or a closet where every single item can be seen and trusted to fit? I, for one, still cling to about ten pairs of size-four jeans from 2007 that haven’t fit since before my second child was born a decade ago. It’s time to let go of those, even if it stings a bit.

However, amidst all this purging, there’s a glaring absence in the discussion: why do we have so much stuff in the first place, and how can we prevent future accumulation? This is a conversation we desperately need to have because, let’s face it, Americans are drowning in material possessions.

The average American household contains a staggering 300,000 items—and that’s not a typo. This number doesn’t even account for everything we own. The storage industry is booming, with one in ten Americans renting storage units. There are 50,000 facilities across the U.S. that collectively offer enough space for every individual to have 7.3 square feet for their belongings. Even with homes tripling in size over the last 50 years, we still can’t fit our cars in our garages due to clutter. It’s no wonder the home organization sector is expanding at an impressive rate of 10% annually.

Consider this: 3% of the world’s children live in the U.S., yet we possess 40% of the world’s toys. It’s absurd, especially since most kids engage with only a handful of their toys. Why are we filling their spaces with plastic toys that contribute to environmental degradation? We’re equally reckless when it comes to clothing. Today, Americans own three times more clothes than those in 1930, with the average person discarding 65 pounds of clothing each year.

Does this make you feel uneasy?

Overconsumption is a distinctly Western dilemma. Just 12% of the North American and Western European population is responsible for 60% of global consumer spending, while a third of the population in South Asia and sub-Saharan Africa accounts for a meager 3.2%. Every year, Americans squander 1.2 trillion dollars on nonessential items—yes, that includes things we simply don’t need.

Then, we discard the excess, either out of necessity (like packaging and junk mail) or in the name of “decluttering.” But where does all this waste go? Since 1950, humankind has produced approximately 8.3 billion tons of plastic, with over half ending up in landfills and a mere 9% recycled. The rest likely resides in our oceans, with an alarming 4.8 to 12.7 million metric tons being added annually. This is unacceptable.

So, how did we reach this point? Why does our culture prioritize consumption? In the U.S., the health of our economy is measured by consumption metrics. Our societal well-being is intricately tied to our capacity to consume—not just a little, but more and more every year. If we’re not growing, we’re failing.

Stock indices like the S&P and Dow Jones track economic health; as long as these numbers rise, we’re in the clear. This growth is fueled by production and consumption. Gross Domestic Product (GDP) measures the volume of goods produced, while consumer spending indicates whether we’re buying more than the previous year. Failing to spend enough could lead us into a recession. To avert this scenario, manufacturers design products with planned obsolescence, ensuring they wear out quickly and require replacement. This cycle of endless consumption is unsustainable.

Our economy—and our overall well-being—relies on a throwaway culture. Marketing convinces us that our social status hinges on possessing the latest and greatest items. Despite my efforts to be minimalistic, I find myself holding onto two designer bags I hardly use.

Why has our Western culture equated success with material wealth? To enact meaningful change, we need a cultural shift that emphasizes what genuinely enriches our lives. We must redefine success metrics at personal and societal levels. The challenge lies in the fact that such a shift could displace millions who depend on our current consumption-driven economy, many of whom work under dire conditions for minimal pay.

While we may not be able to instigate sweeping changes, we can all take steps to be more mindful of our consumption habits and the lessons we impart to our children.

  • Choose reusable water bottles over bottled water.
  • Invest in experiences rather than material goods.
  • Opt for secondhand items—clothing, furniture, vehicles.
  • Don’t wait until your home is overwhelmed with clutter to ponder whether your possessions “spark joy.” Ask yourself while you’re eyeing that seasonal throw pillow you know you won’t really use.

Ultimately, change is necessary. We can choose to act now, or future generations will be forced to confront a planet smothered by the very items we thought would bring us happiness, like an artificial insemination kit, which you can read more about here. For those exploring fertility options, this resource is invaluable. Additionally, this site offers excellent information on treating infertility.

In summary, while decluttering is gaining popularity, it’s crucial to address the root causes of our overconsumption and find ways to foster a more sustainable future for ourselves and our children.

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