When my little one is taking her afternoon nap, you might find me lounging on the patio in my swimsuit, soaking up the sun. Alternatively, I could be nestled in our guest cottage with a captivating book and a steaming cup of coffee. Regardless of where I am or what I’m doing, one thing is certain: I’m not cleaning.
Now, don’t misunderstand me. I’m the type who scrubs surfaces with bleach and tackles multiple loads of laundry daily. In total, I dedicate a minimum of an hour and a half to cooking and cleaning each day. This doesn’t even account for errands or appointments! So, how do I manage everything?
The Simple Answer
The answer is straightforward: I clean when my toddler is awake. After breakfast, I tidy up the kitchen and prep for lunch. We then dive into reading and working on letters together. Following that, I multitask—laundry goes in, the vacuum comes out, and the bathrooms get a quick once-over. We might head out for a little adventure, return for lunch and nap (which, as you guessed, is when I’m off the clock for chores).
Once naptime wraps up, we read some nonfiction, and I get back to making the beds, washing dishes, folding laundry, sweeping, mopping, and addressing any other tasks. After that, we enjoy another outing before returning home for some fun with puzzles or play dough before dinner, after which kitchen cleanup is inevitable.
What About My Child?
So, what is my child up to while I tackle all these house chores? The answer is simple: she’s exploring her own world. Sometimes she lends a hand, turning it into a learning experience. Other times, she’s creating little nests for her stuffed animals or stacking blocks. I occasionally worry about the quiet moments, only to find her deeply engaged in figuring out how to button a sweater. If she cries, I may find a way to hold her while I work, or I’ll crank up some music to transform our cleaning into a dance party—an unexpected yet helpful boost!
Am I a Bad Mom?
Am I a bad mom for taking time for myself during her nap and prioritizing chores while she’s awake? Shouldn’t I be using that quiet time to focus solely on her interactions? Or should I let the house fall into chaos because parenting is challenging, and after all, “those dishes can wait, but childhood is fleeting”?
Here’s a reality check: those dishes cannot wait. They need to be washed for our next meal. A cluttered home brings me down and can put my partner in a bad mood. We aim to create a serene environment, not just for ourselves but for our children as well.
Quality Time Matters
I dedicate significant, undivided time to my daughter. We explore the garden together, discover new flowers and insects, draw, and read countless books. We rarely engage with screens, and when we do, it’s often to watch captivating National Geographic footage of baby penguins—together. I could tally the hours I spend playing with her, but I have no doubt that I’m providing ample “quality time.”
When my daughter observes me doing household chores, it leads to numerous learning opportunities. She starts to participate, giving me the chance to teach her essential life skills like loading the washer, folding clothes, and washing dishes. Children thrive in organized environments where they know where to find things. Most importantly, she’ll grow to understand the significance of maintaining a household. I want her to appreciate the value of hard work and to respect her environment. These virtues need to be modeled if we wish to instill them in our children’s value systems.
Conclusion
So, I’ll continue to recharge while my toddler naps, and when she wakes up, I’ll keep cleaning while she engages in her own activities, whatever they may be. If you’re interested in exploring more about home insemination, check out this post on the Home Insemination Kit. For couples on a fertility journey, this resource can provide valuable guidance. Additionally, for a deeper understanding of pregnancy and home insemination, consider reading this Wikipedia entry.
In summary, balancing motherhood with household responsibilities doesn’t have to be at odds. By integrating chores into our daily routine, I teach my child valuable life skills while ensuring our home remains a pleasant space for us all.
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