Have you ever come across something so baffling that you had to do a double take, only to realize it was as ridiculous as it first seemed? That was my reaction when I spotted a sign in the window of a local store in my Minnesota hometown. This women-owned boutique, Giggle Gals, caters to suburban moms offering clothes, jewelry, and home décor. But there, in glaring letters, was a sign stating: “Your husband called, he said buy what you want.”
Wait, what? Did that sign just suggest that I need my husband’s approval to treat myself? Am I supposed to whip up his dinner and neatly fold his laundry before checking if I can indulge in this luxurious bath bomb? Have we somehow traveled back to the 1950s without realizing it?
I tried to rationalize how the store owner might have intended the message to be light-hearted or humorous, but honestly, it misses the mark entirely. The implication that women require their spouse’s consent to make a financial decision is not only outdated but downright offensive.
Women today are powerhouses. They juggle work, family, and personal commitments, often taking on multiple roles. Many are breadwinners, managing everything from jobs and meals to school activities and charity events. They are not just participants in the workforce; they are leaders and innovators, pursuing degrees and starting businesses. In fact, nearly 70% of mothers with children under 18 are active in the labor force, with a significant portion employed full-time.
This sign doesn’t just reflect poorly on the store; it sends a message that we are still living in an era where women must seek permission from men for personal purchases. In reality, we are independent adults with financial autonomy and the power to make our own choices.
Of course, many couples discuss significant purchases together, but assuming every little buy requires a green light from a partner is laughable. We are capable, self-sufficient women, and we don’t need anyone’s approval to treat ourselves.
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In summary, it’s time to move past outdated notions of permission and embrace the empowered women we are today. We don’t need to ask for permission to make purchases for ourselves.
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