To my dear friends who are fortunate enough to still have their mothers,
The experience of losing a loved one can arrive unexpectedly and without warning. For me, it was a mere 10 months from the moment my mother received her cancer diagnosis to the day she passed away. This illness is notorious for stealing health and happiness from both its victims and their families. One moment we are sharing life’s joys, planning for the future, and the next we find ourselves engulfed in a battle for survival, ultimately leading to a heartbreaking farewell.
I never anticipated losing my mother so soon or in such a painful manner. There was no way to prepare for the emotional whirlwind that followed. Her departure felt like a thief in the night, taking away the chance for me to fully comprehend and cherish our time together.
Thanks to my faith, I maintain a sense of peace and hope, yet I find myself grappling with the reality that this Mother’s Day marks my first as a mother without my own mother. I will receive heartfelt cards, thoughtful gifts, and an outpouring of love, but I can no longer express my gratitude to her. I cannot shower her with the affection she deserves or thank her for the lessons she imparted about motherhood—both the good and the challenging. The chance to articulate how profoundly she influenced my life as a mom, a wife, and a woman is gone.
So, to my friends who still have their mothers: Whether your relationship is incredibly close or marked by distance, I urge you to reach out to your mother this week.
If you align in your views or find yourselves at odds, take a moment to look her in the eye and let her know how much she means to you. Regardless of whether she has been affectionate or reserved, express your appreciation and let love linger in your words or embrace. If she has been a role model or a source of lessons learned through experience, share what you’ve gained from her.
Whether your mother is near perfect or has fallen short, remember that she is still present in your life. This alone offers enormous potential for connection. Call her, hold her close, and envelop her in your love, even if it comes with complexities. Reach out for reconciliation if there is estrangement, seek compromise if indifference reigns, and dedicate your time and attention if you feel busy. Show affection even if you are typically reserved, and share your abundant love, even if you already do so regularly.
Last year, I could never have imagined celebrating Mother’s Day without my mom. Don’t let another moment pass without connecting with yours.
Happy Mother’s Day, my friends. May you find the grace to give and receive love in abundance.
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Summary
This heartfelt message encourages friends who still have their mothers to cherish their relationships, offering guidance on expressing love and gratitude. The author reflects on the loss of her mother and the importance of connection, especially during Mother’s Day.
Keyphrase: A Note to My Friends with Living Mothers
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