During my first pregnancy, my aunt thoughtfully sent me care packages with gifts for both me and my soon-to-arrive baby. When I opened the first box, I let out a joyful squeal upon discovering a tiny onesie that read “Muggle” across the chest. It was an absolute treasure, perfect for my little one.
As a proud fangirl, I carry on the legacy of my family—though perhaps not literally, as my father and grandfather were more into traditional sports. My passions include Harry Potter, Star Wars, Game of Thrones, and Lord of the Rings, among others. In our household, allegiance is sworn not to sports teams but to the magical worlds of our favorite franchises. My children will undoubtedly grow up immersed in nerd culture, embracing it with the same fervor that only a true enthusiast can muster.
While some parents eagerly anticipate their child’s first soccer game or the moment they ride a bike, I’m eagerly awaiting our first movie night together featuring A New Hope. And just to clarify, we won’t be starting with Episode I – The Phantom Menace. That’s a hard pass until they’re older.
Extravagant birthday parties for children tend to overwhelm me; they require extensive planning and often lead to glitter chaos. Instead, I prefer a simpler approach—renting a party room where kids can enjoy pizza and cake without the stress. However, when my kids turn 11, I plan to go all out with a themed celebration: letters from Hogwarts, lightning bolt decorations, and homemade butterbeer, which will likely lead to an amusing aftermath.
But what if my children decide they don’t want to dive into the world of Harry Potter, Star Wars, or the Hamilton soundtrack? The thought is almost devastating. Surely, they will have other interests, but why would they choose anything else when the best adventures await them? After all, these stories have been adapted into countless Lego video games!
Every time I immerse myself in these beloved stories, nostalgia and joy wash over me, fueling my enthusiasm. Except for Game of Thrones, which often leaves me feeling emotionally drained. Yet, despite the heartache of losing beloved characters, I can’t resist the draw of its complex narratives.
I want my children to experience that level of passion for the art they cherish. While I’ve never been a sports fan, I liken my enthusiasm to the fervor some display for their favorite teams—only with lightsabers and magic wands, which is, of course, far superior.
The beauty of introducing my kids to the world of nerds is that it creates a shared experience. If my child wants to dress as Luke Skywalker for Halloween, you can bet I’ll don my Chewbacca outfit while my partner takes on the role of Han Solo. Nerd culture has become so mainstream, offering countless family-friendly events like Renaissance fairs and campus quidditch matches. There are even Star Wars-themed days on Disney cruises!
As my oldest child, now 4, grows, there are still many aspects of this culture he isn’t ready to explore. He might be too young for the darker elements of the stories, but he loves his lightning bolt pants, which he proudly calls his “Harry Potter pants.” He enjoys watching short clips from the films, especially the thrilling quidditch scenes. The Hamilton soundtrack has become a staple in our home, and recently, he surprised me by singing his favorite songs as he climbed into bed with me one morning. It melted my heart.
The camaraderie that families often feel while cheering for their sports teams will be mirrored in our household as we don our Hogwarts robes for movie marathons or plan trips to the Wizarding World, all adorned in our respective house colors. I may be a Slytherin, my husband a Gryffindor, but my children are definitely not allowed to be Hufflepuffs—no child of mine will ever bear that title.
As they grow older, there will be books, toys, lightsabers, and wands to explore together. We will bond over our shared love of these adventures, forming a family of joyful dorks.
In conclusion, embracing nerd culture in my family is not just about entertainment; it’s about creating lasting connections through shared passions. Whether it’s celebrating birthdays with themed parties or enjoying movie nights, our lives will be enriched by the stories and characters we cherish. For more information on pregnancy and the journey to parenthood, check out this excellent resource: World Health Organization – Pregnancy.
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