When my partner and I discovered we were expecting our third child, we were taken aback. Just weeks prior, we had given away the last of our baby items, convinced we were finished expanding our family. The transition to a family of four felt complete—until it wasn’t.
Our two children were thrilled about the prospect of a new sibling, which helped us embrace the news. However, the reality of needing to replenish all our baby supplies sent us into a bit of a frenzy.
The excitement that typically accompanies a new arrival soon bubbled up, filled with conversations about baby names, swaddling techniques, and adorable outfits. Inevitably, the topic of a baby shower arose. Initially, we considered a simple gathering focused on hand-me-downs. The thought of receiving cherished items from friends sparked joy in me, but as the registry discussions progressed, I realized that my vision for this celebration wasn’t aligning with traditional expectations.
Consequently, we opted to forgo the baby shower in favor of a low-key ‘baby sprinkle’—a gathering to meet our little one once they arrive. Interestingly, this concept is quite common in Europe, where friends and family typically wait until after the birth to celebrate. In France, for instance, loved ones come together to welcome the newborn, bringing gifts for both the baby and the mother.
I don’t view this decision through a materialistic lens. My focus is on avoiding unnecessary accumulation of baby items that often result from goodwill and clearance sales. My partner and I have incrementally acquired only the essentials: a crib, a car seat, cloth diapers, and a baby carrier, leaving little left on my annotated list that has been stuck to the fridge since that fateful day when I saw those two pink lines.
As we approach the third trimester, I’ve realized that what I genuinely crave is the warmth and support of friends and family who want to celebrate this new life with us. The French approach resonates with me; the joy of passing around our baby, surrounded by love and excitement, is what I envision for this occasion.
While traditional baby showers serve a meaningful purpose in helping families prepare for a new arrival, this time around, I desire something that emphasizes welcoming our baby into our family rather than focusing on material gifts. I want to collect stories and hugs instead of just onesies—and maybe some delicious casseroles too.
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In summary, we are choosing a ‘baby sprinkle’ over a traditional shower to focus on the community and love surrounding the arrival of our new child, rather than the accumulation of gifts. This approach allows us to celebrate the essence of family and friendship as we welcome our baby into the world.
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