This past weekend, I finally took some time for myself. One of my closest friends, Sarah, is tying the knot soon, and as a bridesmaid, I was thrilled to join the bachelorette getaway. We rented a charming, fully-equipped house, and our itinerary consisted of wine tasting, dancing, and even more wine tasting. Honestly, it was the kind of weekend that dreams are made of.
During our wine-fueled conversations, a couple of friends asked if it was difficult for me to leave my children behind for the weekend. The short answer? Absolutely not.
The longer version is that I hadn’t spent a night away from my youngest, who is now 16 months old. He’s quite the mama’s boy, having nursed until he was nearly a year old and often crying when I simply stepped out to the store (which, let’s be honest, was mostly for wine). So, including the time he spent in my womb, it had been over two years since I enjoyed any uninterrupted time to myself.
And let me tell you, that weekend was just what I needed. I savored hot coffee, laughed until I cried, and bonded with friends who knew me before motherhood, while also meeting new women who saw me as more than just a mom. I got ready without having to plan my kids’ outfits or worrying about potential chaos in our tiny bathroom, where the kids usually swarm me while I straighten my hair.
I dressed up for a dinner that didn’t involve cutting chicken tenders or worrying about meltdowns. I danced to music other than Taylor Swift and was surprised to find I remembered all the lyrics to NSYNC and Backstreet Boys songs from my teenage years.
I engaged in real conversations without interruptions or the need to mute my phone to threaten time-outs. I had the luxury of sitting in silence, thinking my own thoughts. When it was finally time to return home, I was genuinely excited to see my children and my wonderful partner, Mark, who had taken care of everything while I enjoyed my weekend. I finally had a chance to miss them.
Moms, listen up: There’s no prize for being the most exhausted or overwhelmed. If the opportunity arises for a getaway, whether it’s a weekend with the girls or a night out with your partner, seize it. Forget the mommy guilt that tries to creep in as you leave the driveway. Your kids will be perfectly fine, and everyone will benefit from your time away.
And if your kids are anything like mine, they’ll rush to greet you when you return, shower you with hugs, and excitedly share everything they did in under three minutes. Then, it’ll be back to the usual chaos, giving you all the more reason to start dreaming about your next escape.
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In summary, taking a break as a mom is essential for your well-being. Embrace the time away, recharge, and remember that your family will be waiting for you with open arms.
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