In November, as I welcomed my child into the world, I never anticipated that my maternity leave would coincide with the upheaval of a national election and the subsequent inauguration of a controversial president. During those early weeks of motherhood, I found myself grappling with a desire to stay informed about the world while also needing to safeguard my mental well-being, so as not to overshadow the joy of these fleeting moments with my newborn.
Like a car accident one can’t help but watch, the events unfolding around me were hard to ignore. I was acutely aware of how the election affected not just me, but also my friends and family. The sentiments of anxiety and despair were palpable, and I felt the weight of it all. While I was already facing the challenges of postpartum life, I knew I had to be proactive in avoiding the post-election gloom that seemed to envelop those around me.
Many friends chose to step away from social media to shield themselves from the negativity. They announced their breaks and sought the quiet of solitude. I contemplated doing the same, focusing solely on my baby and steering clear of the stress that arose with each news alert or social media post regarding political controversies. Yet, something held me back.
A question echoed in the digital conversations among my peers, predominantly women: “What can I do?” With the election concluded, many felt a sense of helplessness about the next four years. But as I considered withdrawing from social media—especially when faced with distasteful posts from relatives—I recognized the beauty in staying connected. The individuals in my network were already engaged in meaningful work.
I responded to their concerns: “Continue the good work you are already doing. Now is not the time to stop; it’s time to amplify your efforts.” Each time I logged into my social media accounts, I was inspired by the remarkable actions of those I respect. From an old high school friend designing schools for children in Haiti to a former coworker advocating for her transgender child, and my cousin who teaches English to Syrian refugees in New Haven, these individuals embody the spirit of resilience.
Especially touching were the posts from friends working as hospice nurses, sharing the profound experiences of caring for those at the end of life. These people, along with many others, were engaged in the everyday yet radical work necessary to create a better world. Their commitment to social justice, combined with the mundane joys of life—like sharing milestones of their children—reminded me of the goodness that exists.
This realization is what kept me present online. I find inspiration in seeing my network tackle both significant and everyday challenges to counter the negativity that permeates our current landscape. They are not just passive observers; they are active participants in creating positive change.
As women, we initially felt we were on the brink of progress only to witness a shift that shattered our sense of security. However, we are accustomed to fighting for what we believe in. Our daily efforts continue in the small corners of our lives. So, if you ever consider stepping back, remember to share more. Stay engaged, because I yearn for beauty, connection, and inspiration from those who motivate me to keep advocating for humanity, one post at a time.
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In summary, staying connected on social media serves as a powerful tool for inspiration and empowerment, especially during challenging times. It allows us to witness the good in the world and combat feelings of helplessness with collective action and support.
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