Dear Family, Friends, Acquaintances, and Casual Passersby,
I hope this letter finds you well. I would like to address the many inquiries regarding my plans for a second child. Despite your sincere curiosity, I must clarify that I am not planning on expanding our family. Fortunately, I’ve not faced any traumatic birthing experiences or medical complications that would prevent me from having another child. Our family is stable, and I simply prefer to focus my love and energy on one child.
Some may label this choice as selfish. If working tirelessly throughout the week to provide for my family, carving out time to enjoy my son’s company, and savoring a warm meal without the remnants of his lunch on my plate qualifies as selfish, then I accept that title. I also relish the opportunity to maintain a semblance of my own life—hitting the gym a couple of times a week, catching up with friends occasionally, and indulging in a rare haircut.
You express concern that my son might lack a playmate. But the reality is, siblings don’t always play together harmoniously. One might be fascinated by trucks while the other prefers arts and crafts, leading to potential clashes. During these fleeting years, I want to be fully present, engaging with my son and creating cherished memories together rather than deferring the responsibility of companionship to a hypothetical sibling. After all, there’s great joy in sharing these moments, and I intend to savor every bit of it.
You might wonder, “What happens when you’re no longer around?” Yes, it may seem self-serving not to have another child to help with life’s later arrangements. However, I believe I can instill the values of friendship, family, and love in my son, ensuring he has the tools to forge meaningful relationships throughout his life. If it eases your worries, I could also consider a life insurance policy—likely a more prudent choice than bringing another child into the mix.
As for the allure of more cuteness, yes, my son is indeed a delightful cherub, but I’m not willing to gamble on the possibility of a second child not meeting that standard. “What if you want a daughter?” you might ask. I already have a sister who embodies the essence of a female sibling, and I’m content with that.
And then there’s the fear of spoiling my son. I actually hope he enjoys a bit of indulgence! With two children, the chance of spoiling either diminishes as I’d be preoccupied with balancing needs and finances, all while teaching life’s essential lessons. My role as a parent is to guide him and help him navigate the complexities of life, including the perils of retail therapy at the Disney Store!
In conclusion, one child is what works best for my family, and that’s the choice we’ve made. I genuinely appreciate your concern, but I will continue to love my only son and raise him in the way that feels right for us.
Warm regards,
Natalie
P.S. Please refrain from saying “one and done”—it’s a bit cringeworthy.
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