Dear children,
As I pen this letter, you are both still quite young—just 18 months and 3 years old. Yet, it’s astonishing how adept you are with technology, especially with that tablet! You belong to a generation immersed in digital devices and constant connectivity.
In my childhood, we didn’t have the luxury of apps or smartphones. We survived without Wi-Fi or the convenience of instant information. Our phones were tethered to the walls of our homes, and if we needed to reach someone while out, we relied on pay phones—yes, those old relics!
We didn’t have the luxury of Google or voice assistants to answer our every query. Instead, we would venture to the library, combing through card catalogs and encyclopedias, putting in the effort to find our answers. Navigating the world meant asking for directions or wrestling with unwieldy paper maps—an adventure in itself!
As you grow older, technology will undoubtedly evolve in ways we can only imagine. Who knows? By the time you read this, you might be too busy dealing with a robot uprising! Nonetheless, I want to share some guidance about navigating a world filled with instant access:
- Unplug Regularly: While it’s tempting to immerse yourself in screens, remember that everything is best enjoyed in moderation. Reflect on your experiences; you won’t reminisce about your favorite social media post later on. Prioritize creating meaningful memories.
- Cultivate Real Connections: While smartphones are ubiquitous among your peers, I’ve observed groups of teens gathering yet engrossed in their devices, missing out on authentic interactions. Make an effort to engage in conversations and maintain eye contact; these skills are invaluable.
- Practice Good Manners: Treat others as you wish to be treated. A smile and a positive attitude can make a difference. Always remember to say “please” and “thank you,” and approach others with respect and kindness.
- Accountability Online: The anonymity of the internet can lead to hurtful behaviors. Never use the shield of a screen to say things you wouldn’t say face-to-face. A good rule is to strive for kindness, both online and offline.
- Be Your Own Advocate: Steer clear of the negativity that lurks in the comments sections online. While it’s crucial to stand up for your beliefs, discern which battles are worth your time and energy.
- Make Smart Choices: Consider the long-term impact of your decisions. Be cautious about what you share online and avoid sharing personal images that could be misused.
- Cherish the Written Word: Seek out books—preferably tangible ones—if they still exist in the future. Even if reading feels like a chore, persevere until you discover that one book that sparks your love for literature. Keep that passion alive.
- Master Communication: In a world filled with emojis and acronyms, strong writing skills are crucial. Proper spelling, grammar, and vocabulary are essential if you want your words to be taken seriously. And please, refrain from using “u” instead of “you” outside of texts!
- Discover What Brings You Joy: Embrace your creativity and invest time in music and art. Surround yourself with friends who uplift and inspire you.
- Seek Adventure: Spend as much time outdoors as you can. Don’t just admire images of beautiful places; go explore them yourself. Feel the earth underfoot and allow yourself to be amazed by the world’s grandeur.
Today, answers are just a tap away, but I hope this doesn’t dull your curiosity. Strive to learn through firsthand experiences, and savor those moments fully. Who knows? By then, teleportation or flying cars might be a reality, allowing you to explore even more of what life has to offer.
With all my love,
Mom