When dealing with the ever-mysterious world of teenagers, experts suggest a creative twist on how you ask questions. The trick? Keep your inquiries open-ended. Let’s explore how that looks in practice.
Parent: How was school today?
Teen: Boring.
Parent: What part was the most boring?
Teen: Honestly, the whole thing.
Instead of sticking to the same routine, consider a more detailed approach: engage in rigorous questioning about every little thing you have even a vague inkling of. This method might just lead you to uncover useful tidbits. Here’s a real-life example:
Parent: Did you get the music for the upcoming audition from your band teacher?
Teen: I didn’t make it to band today.
Parent: Where were you then?
Teen: At the Geography Bee.
Parent: Were you excused from band for that?
Teen: I was actually in the Geography Bee.
Parent: Oh! You were in a Geography Bee today?
Teen: Yes.
Parent: Wow, I had no idea! Anything else I should know?
Teen: Nope.
Parent: Can you keep me updated on any future school events you participate in?
Teen: I’m in the Spelling Bee next week.
As you can see, the secret lies in asking progressively specific questions. And whatever you do, don’t let your child leave the room until you’ve satisfied your curiosity. It might be helpful to have these conversations in a car where they’re buckled in—much safer for the both of you.
Another example could look like this:
Parent: Are you planning to go to Homecoming next week?
Teen: I guess so.
Parent: Who are you going with?
Teen: A group of us is talking about it.
Parent: Who is “a group of us”?
Teen: [lists equal boys and girls]
Parent: Are you going with someone special?
Teen: I guess.
Parent: Do you know who that is?
Teen: Sort of.
Parent: How did you find out?
Teen: She asked me to go with her, and I said yes.
With a little follow-up, I discovered the girl’s dress color (purple), her favorite flower (rose), and whether my son needed to coordinate his tie and pocket square (yes, yes). Only by asking, “Am I invited to the place where you’re taking pictures?” did I find out I was indeed invited. No open-ended question would have revealed this vital information, even if I had waited there all day. Plus, time is of the essence—basketball practice is coming up!
So, is there anything else I should be aware of?
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Summary
Navigating teenage communication can be tricky, but employing a more thorough questioning technique may yield better insights. By asking specific questions and maintaining an open dialogue, parents can stay informed about their teen’s activities and social life.
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