By: Alex Morgan
As my daughter, Lily, prepares for her exciting move to Paris, I want to ensure that the nuggets of wisdom I’ve shared over the years are firmly ingrained in her mind. I often wake up in a panic, hoping she remembers to pack not just her essentials, but also the common sense and etiquette that will serve her well. Each morning, I sneak into her room, whispering my advice in hopes that some of it will stick. Reflecting on my own experiences at 20, I’ve compiled a list of lessons that I wish I had known back then:
- Prioritize your decisions. The choices you make regarding your body, emotions, relationships, and finances will define who you are.
- Stay connected with family. Your transition affects them too.
- Be cautious with credit cards. If you can’t afford it, you don’t need it.
- Step outside and enjoy nature. And don’t forget your sunscreen!
- Share a smile with strangers; it can brighten their day.
- Always support kids selling lemonade.
- Be truthful, but know when to keep certain thoughts to yourself.
- Kindness is key, but don’t let anyone walk all over you.
- Volunteer your time; it’s rewarding.
- Value your sleep, but don’t underestimate the power of an afternoon nap.
- Use the buddy system for safety.
- Everyone has their struggles, even if they seem perfect.
- Tip generously—at least 15 percent.
- Look for the silver lining; it’s better than complaining.
- If something isn’t working, make a change.
- Listen actively; patience is a virtue.
- Set clear ground rules with roommates to prevent future conflicts.
- Return borrowed items in good condition.
- Write letters to your grandparents; aim for one handwritten note a month.
- Send genuine thank-you notes—texts and emails don’t count.
- Don’t lend money unless you’re okay with not getting it back.
- Embrace new experiences and enjoy the journey.
- Don’t fear failure; it’s part of personal growth.
- Keep an eye on deadlines; they can have significant consequences.
- Remember that nothing on the internet truly disappears—use privacy settings wisely.
- Journal about both the good and the tough times; share when you feel ready.
- Don’t leave the gas tank empty for the next person—same goes for toilet paper.
- Seek advice, but remember you don’t have to follow it all.
- Read widely—whether for pleasure or knowledge, just read!
- Trust your instincts. If you wouldn’t want to share a decision publicly, reconsider it.
Lily has begun to take my advice more seriously, and though she may never be the type to call frequently, I’m encouraged by her newfound interest in stationery and journals. She’s even purchased a planner, which eases some of my worries.
Above all, I’m proud of her adventurous spirit and the confidence she has to embark on this journey alone. She embodies the very essence of the best advice given to me as a new mother: “Raise her to be a strong and independent woman who embraces life.”
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In summary, as Lily sets off on her journey, I hope these words of wisdom serve her well, guiding her through life’s challenges with grace and confidence.
Keyphrase: Words of Wisdom for Young Adults
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