Let’s be real: I’d much prefer to wait until my little ones are tucked in for the night and my partner is home from work. After a long day of juggling motherhood, work, and household chores, the last thing I want is to embark on a grocery shopping adventure with my pint-sized companions.
Sure, I get it—many parents take their kids grocery shopping out of necessity. I know there are Pinterest boards dedicated to turning these trips into fun learning experiences about nutrition and math. But honestly? I’m just not interested.
Grocery shopping used to feel like a mini retreat for me. I would leave behind the chaos of my day and step into a serene space brimming with delicious food options. I loved wandering the aisles, humming along to the music while checking off items from my shopping list. It was my time to unwind, a chance to gather ingredients for meals I was excited to prepare, all while enjoying a moment of solitude. I didn’t have to engage in lengthy conversations—just a friendly chat with a fellow shopper or a quick thank you to the cashier for bagging my items. It was blissful.
And then came the children—the sweet but loud little beings who seem to thrive on chaos. When they were toddlers, the thought of grocery shopping was overwhelming. Do I even want to revisit the memory of chasing them as they darted in different directions or dealing with a sudden bathroom emergency mid-shop? Let’s fast-forward to now.
Somehow, my reasonably self-sufficient school-aged kids transform into clingy little barnacles the moment we approach a grocery store. I’ve seen this phenomenon affect other children too, so I know it’s not just mine. The transformation is instantaneous and downright maddening, and I’ve decided it’s just not worth it. I love my kids too much to spend our grocery trips in frustration. Here are the reasons I’m officially opting for solo shopping trips from now on:
- I have a stash of 37 “creative masterpieces” in my trunk, along with a garbage bag of toys I’ve secretly removed from the house. I can’t risk them finding out during my purge.
- I prefer not to hear demands for ice cream, puppies, video games, and more while I’m driving to the store.
- It’d be nice to listen to the radio without being asked about questionable lyrics.
- I’d rather not spend time cleaning up after my child’s door-swinging antics that inevitably leave marks on other cars.
- The car’s A/C is always too chilly for them, and I’m tired of the “I told you so” moments when they forget their jackets.
- My kids have a limited food palette but somehow want me to buy an endless list of items when we’re shopping.
- Those mini shopping carts they provide for kids? No thanks! My Achilles tendon prefers to remain intact.
- And those car-shaped shopping carts? They’re germ factories that I’d rather avoid, thank you very much.
- It’s exhausting to constantly repeat, “Please stay to the right!” in my ‘nice voice’ while they ignore me.
- I definitely don’t want to be the one handing over the sneaky snacks they’ve added to the cart to the poor cashier.
- The store is filled with precariously stacked items that are simply too tempting for little hands.
- I find it easier to navigate the aisles without the constant apologies I have to make when they’re with me.
- Nineties pop music is my jam, and I’d love to dance in the aisles without an audience.
- Explaining the circle of life next to the lobster tank has become a task I dread.
- It’s much simpler to buy cookies for myself when the kids aren’t around to question my choices.
- I really don’t need to hear how vegetables “taste like butt” today; I’m buying them anyway.
- I fear the candy-free checkout lines will be nonexistent, and I don’t want to deal with the inevitable pleas for sweets.
So if you catch me late one night at the local supermarket in my pajamas, grooving to some synth-pop while I toss fresh broccoli into my cart, you now understand why. I have a feeling I won’t be alone in this late-night grocery excursion.
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Summary:
Grocery shopping with kids can be a chaotic and frustrating experience. From their endless demands to potential accidents, it’s often easier for parents to shop alone. Embracing solo trips allows for a more enjoyable experience, filled with music and the freedom to purchase what they want without interruptions.
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