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by Mia Carter
Updated: Oct. 4, 2023
Originally Published: July 18, 2015
I adore my children, ages 5 and 7, more than words can express. But honestly? I think they’ve become a bit spoiled, and it drives me absolutely nuts. Before you get all riled up, let me clarify: I take full responsibility for their behavior. It’s on me.
As parents, we often find ourselves in a tricky situation; by the time we recognize our mistakes, our kids have already developed some frustrating habits, and reversing that is incredibly challenging. But I’m committed to making things right. I demand politeness, engage in discussions about gratitude, and seize every opportunity to teach them valuable lessons, hoping they’ll grow into kind individuals. They’re starting to grasp these concepts, but it’s a constant struggle, especially when they see other spoiled kids around them.
Let Me Elaborate…
Kids Who Expect Everything Done for Them
It all starts when they’re tiny and we cater to their every need. But newsflash: they grow up and can contribute! Even toddlers can help tidy up. “Mom! Get me some water.” No way! Use those handy little arms of yours. “I want a snack.” Great, but can you walk to the kitchen and grab it? Remember those hands? Plus, if they don’t show me some manners, they won’t get any assistance from me.
And dinner? Let’s talk about that. One meal a day, and if they want to eat, they can help prepare it. Those tiny hands can chop and mix, and they better be ready to pitch in!
Kids Who Shirk Chores
I might be sounding a bit grumpy, but I refuse to spend years cleaning up after what feels like a herd of wild animals. Toys, clothes, glitter—it’s a disaster! Sure, it might be easier to clean up myself, and yes, it’s quicker. But am I prepared to enforce accountability and teach them responsibility, even if it means enduring some whining? Absolutely.
Kids Who Don’t Understand Money
Every trip to Target turns into a pleading session. They want everything! I used to pacify them with a trip to the dollar aisle, but now we discuss prices and budgets. They receive a small allowance and are learning how to manage their spending. Spoiled children are easy to spot; they flaunt their new toys and clothes. It’s not their fault; it’s the parents who keep showering them with gifts, creating a generation of entitled shoppers. Let’s teach our kids what money really means and how to value it.
The Real Issue
The heart of the problem—and my failing as a parent—is that we often avoid their help because it creates more work for us. When they assist in meal prep, it can be messy, and yes, there’s a fear of accidents. Our short-sightedness prevents us from delegating tasks that could ease our lives in the long run. The struggle to get them involved is real, but the rewards are phenomenal. I dream of the day when they’re cooking dinner for me. “Meatloaf, please!”
So here we are, my kids and I, on a journey towards better behavior, tackling challenges one at a time. Fellow parents, let’s keep pushing forward; our children will one day be leaders, and good leaders know how to handle their own responsibilities.
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Summary:
In this article, Mia Carter reflects on the challenges of parenting her two young daughters, whom she describes as a bit spoiled. She acknowledges her role in their behavior and outlines her efforts to instill manners, responsibility, and an understanding of money. While parenting can be exhausting and frustrating, she emphasizes the importance of teaching children valuable life skills and the long-term benefits of involving them in household tasks.
Keyphrase: Spoiled kids and parenting
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