Parenting
By Jessica Lark
Updated: Aug. 20, 2015
Originally Published: March 30, 2015
Yelling at your kids? Not you! You’ve aced a Child Development class and aspire to be just like the fictional perfect parents in your favorite shows. But if you ever find yourself saying things you wish you could take back, here’s how to turn those moments into valuable lessons for your little ones.
1. “What are you thinking?”
This classic line often surfaces when you catch your child using a crayon to decorate the family pet. Instead of simply expressing frustration, you’re sparking a genuine conversation. Your child might contemplate, “What was I thinking? Maybe I felt a bit left out, or perhaps my impulse control is a work in progress.” You’re encouraging self-reflection, and one day, she might thank you for nurturing her critical thinking skills.
2. “Can I just have a moment to breathe?”
If you’ve ever felt like June Cleaver hiding in the bathroom during a chaotic snow day, this phrase resonates. Kids absorb vital lessons from this moment, including “Adults need personal space,” “It’s okay to take a breather,” and “Mommy’s face turns a really funny shade when she’s overwhelmed.”
3. “If you don’t settle down, I’m turning this car around!”
This declaration teaches your child about the importance of safety on the road. When the driver is distracted, it jeopardizes everyone’s safety. And if you manage to toss a snack towards a fussy toddler while navigating a tricky turn, it reassures her that you can handle any challenge—even a zombie apocalypse seems less daunting than a car ride with a wailing toddler.
4. “Get over here, please!”
When you call your child over with this enthusiastic phrase, they might think, “What a fantastic mom I have! She wants me close, especially after I’ve been a little wild all day.” Your little one may believe you’re inviting them to engage in something fun, rather than just wanting to prevent another hair-pulling incident with their sibling.
5. “I’m leaving without you!”
This line, often uttered in frustration as you head to the car, imparts several lessons. First, it poses a philosophical question: “Does Mom think I’m incapable? Why would she drive alone?” Secondly, it teaches that not putting on shoes can really make Mommy’s patience run thin. Finally, your child might vow to never make empty threats to their future kids—oh, how naive they are at five!
6. “You can have a cookie if you listen right now.”
While this might not impart any grand life lesson, it does convey a valuable message about bargaining. As your child grows, they’ll learn that rewards often go beyond just sweets.
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In conclusion, while parenting can lead to moments of frustration, those moments can also be transformed into opportunities for growth and learning. Embrace the chaos, and remember that even the toughest times can teach your children important life lessons.
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