Last month, my partner underwent a vasectomy. Yes, you read that right! He’s officially decided to shoot blanks from now on, and honestly, I’m completely on board with it. While sitting in the waiting area during his “procedure” (which, let’s be real, is a quick outpatient thing I’ve been nudging him to do for over a year), I experienced a whirlwind of emotions that could probably land me in a therapist’s office. I mean, no more precious newborn snuggles—yikes! While I’m thrilled at the prospect of no more pregnancies, I’m also a sentimental person who adores babies, so you can imagine the thoughts swirling in my head.
1. Finally, the Appointment is Here!
Seriously, could he have taken any longer to book this appointment? I’ve been pestering him since I gave birth last January! It felt like I had to remind him a million times. I mean, I didn’t love going to my prenatal visits, but I managed. And pushing a baby out? Yeah, that was also non-negotiable. How tough could it be to grab the phone? Maybe he was just terrified of something going awry—like, what if they accidentally took off his manhood? Wait, that’s not what they do, right? Quickly googles vasectomy details while cursing the hospital’s slow Wi-Fi.
2. Goodbye Birth Control Pills!
Hallelujah! No more daily reminders to take that little pill. I’m convinced all those hormones turned me into a moody monster. And the acne? Don’t even get me started! I’m ready to toss those pills into the trash tonight.
3. Will He Really Complain About Pain?
I mean, come on! I’ve pushed three children into the world, endured stitches—three times, mind you—without medication. The first time, I was stuck on one of those donut cushions for weeks! And let’s not even get into the bathroom horror show post-delivery. So no, I don’t want to hear about his discomfort. He should be grateful he can walk without issues!
4. No More Phantom Kicks!
You know that weird sensation when you think you feel a baby kicking inside you even after you’re no longer pregnant? It’s like those crazy stories of women who unknowingly give birth in toilets! Thankfully, I think those days are behind me now.
5. What If This Doesn’t Work?
What if I end up pregnant again? Is there a guarantee on vasectomies? I should probably ask the doctor, but I fear he’d think I’m nuts. I’ve heard so many “oops” stories from friends about surprise vasectomy babies. I thought it was supposed to be 99.9% effective. Or was it 89%? Ugh, confusion!
6. What Would a Fourth Baby Be Like?
Would it be a boy or a girl? What would we name him or her? Naming babies is a blast! And I do miss parking in the expectant mother spots at the grocery store. I wonder what color eyes this imaginary child would have. Hmmm, maybe just one more wouldn’t hurt? Surely if I rushed back there now, I could stop the procedure! Boom! Fourth baby on the way! Long live the sperm!
7. Do We Even Have Peas and Pain Relievers?
I wonder how much this is going to hurt him. Will he need a wheelchair? Can he even climb the stairs? I should have done more research on this! I think we have frozen peas in the back of the freezer somewhere—if I can find them under the hidden ice cream sandwiches. Great, now I’m hungry!
8. Our Family is Complete, Right?
I think so? Yes, yes, it is! He’s been in there long enough; it must be over. I feel good about our family. Three incredible kids who sleep through the night? Perfect! I can’t handle another round of sleepless nights. I even bought a minivan! I’m not exactly trying to start a reality show here. So yes, we are definitely done. For sure. Maybe.
9. Yes, They Were Sleepless Nights.
Oh yes, they were.
In conclusion, as my partner underwent his vasectomy, I found myself navigating a complex blend of relief and nostalgia. While I will miss the baby phase, I’m ready to embrace this new chapter of our lives. If you’re also contemplating family planning or interested in home insemination options, check out this guide on home insemination kits. For more insights on fertility treatments, WebMD offers an excellent resource.
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