Navigating life with a 12-year-old girl feels like sharing a space with a mini-version of the Hulk—one moment, she’s a cheerful songbird in the shower, and the next, she transforms into a whirlwind of sass, eye-rolls, and tears before breakfast is even over. As I shift from being the Encouraging Parent to the Tough Love Parent and then the Empathetic Parent, it can be quite the emotional rollercoaster. Yet, amidst the chaos, there are moments when we truly connect, both caught in the throes of life transitions—her stepping into the teenage years and me grappling with midlife. Here are ten ways I find myself striking a chord with my daughter:
- Skinny Jeans Dilemma
We both rock skinny jeans, though the appropriateness of our choices is questionable. My pair is stylish, while hers seems to cling just a bit too tightly. Did she really just comment on my jeans being too snug? - Pimple Problems
Regardless of age, acne is a universal truth. While her breakouts are a sign of adolescence, mine are merely a reminder that youth doesn’t last forever. - Nail Polish Trade-Offs
We often find ourselves digging through each other’s nail polish collections. Whether it’s the lively chatter or the sweet hand massages, painting nails together creates a unique bond. Current obsession: Sugarplum, available at Forever 21 for just $2.99. - Surprising Hair Growth
We both encounter unwelcome hair growth. While my daughter can easily wax her new fuzz, I’m considering electrolysis for my own. - Shared Literary Tastes
We’re both captivated by action-packed YA novels filled with fantasy and a hint of romance. Who doesn’t enjoy a good story about an ordinary girl who becomes a hero, finds love, and saves the day? I can’t wait to see the movie adaptation with her! - Creative Cursing
We both have a penchant for using words like “freakin’” and “crap” a bit too often. What was once my clever way to avoid swearing now has my daughter sounding just as cheeky. - Defining ‘Hot’
We share a common language when it comes to crushes. Whether it’s Deacon or Gunnar from Nashville, we both have our opinions on who’s “hot.” When did she learn that ‘hot’ isn’t just about temperature? Is Nashville even suitable for her? - Running is Torture
Neither of us is a fan of running. I recall the exact moment I began to dread gym class—sweat and sore muscles are not appealing. We could use matching Converse instead, right? - Friendship Insecurities
Adult worries about friendships haven’t vanished. I still question if I’m being left out or if people think I’m uncool. Fortunately, my experiences can help guide my daughter through her social struggles. - Dream Supporters
We motivate each other to chase our dreams. My daughter shines as the lead singer in her school’s rock band, and I couldn’t be prouder. I even got to live out my fantasy of performing with a group of moms at a fundraiser. Sure, she may have been embarrassed, but she cheered me on just the same.
Parenting a tween can be a wild ride, but it’s these moments of connection that make it all worthwhile—even if I occasionally flash a bit of butt crack.
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In summary, as we navigate the ups and downs of motherhood and adolescence together, it’s clear that we both have much to learn from one another, forging a bond that’s as delightful as it is challenging.
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