By: Madison Lark
Updated: May 26, 2018
Originally Published: Oct. 30, 2014
On my brightest days, I skillfully fend off imaginary Monsters with a mix of patience and creativity. I can convince my kids that we’ve coated our home with magic Monster-proof paint, or that the Monster is just a tiny creature in a tutu, melodically singing “Puff the Magic Dragon.”
But on the tougher days, I find myself exasperated, snapping as my child bounds up the stairs for the umpteenth time, “Just go to bed already!” Those are the last words they hear before drifting off to sleep.
On the good days, everyone is tidy—including me. My children are clean and smell delightful, with clipped nails and neatly combed hair, free from food remnants or mysterious brown smudges.
Conversely, on the chaotic days, they resemble wildlings, and I catch a glimpse of my own disheveled reflection while brushing my teeth before bed. It’s often a jarring sight.
During the best moments, I truly engage with them, making eye contact and setting aside distractions. I kneel down to their level, committing to memory the sweetness of their little voices saying, “Mama, look!”
Yet on the challenging days, I find myself exclaiming, “Oh my gosh, please stop singing that song before I lose my mind!”
On the brighter days, I can simply observe as my child wrestles with putting on their favorite, albeit stained, t-shirt the right way. I resist the urge to step in and guide them.
On the flip side, on the hard days, I end up forcing them into the clothes I prefer, only to be met with tears as their faces clash with the carefully chosen outfit.
On my best days, I become the storyteller of their lives. I’m the one who will recount that time when, at seven, they couldn’t sit still at the dinner table or when, at two, they looked down after using the potty and exclaimed, “Holy crud!”
However, on the worst days, I find myself repeatedly urging them to “Hurry up!” as I rush around, my mind preoccupied with the next task, leaving me to forget those precious moments.
On the best days, I choose to ignore the chaos—the laundry, the dishes, the clutter—and instead ask, “Want to go for a walk outside?” The excitement this generates makes me regret not doing it more often.
Yet, on the stressful days, I let life’s pressures get the best of me. I catch myself using that intimidating “mom voice” that I didn’t even know I had.
When the inevitable homework meltdowns occur, on the best days, I set aside the work and offer a comforting hug, recognizing that some moments are more important than assignments.
On the worst days, I ramble on in frustration until even I can’t follow my own train of thought, reminding myself once more why homeschooling would be a challenge for me.
On the brighter days, I take a hefty dose of “Chill Out and Relax.” I embrace the moment and realize that life usually isn’t as grave as it seems.
But on the tougher days, I find myself trying to control every little thing, leading to failure and the nagging feeling of “Why did I let this happen?”
On the good days, I sit down and read to them, indulging in story after story until they signal they’re ready to stop, with hopeful eyes asking, “Just one more?”
On the chaotic days, I often feel I have no time to read to them, not even a moment to spare.
During the best moments, I think, “Please hold onto this memory.” And during the worst, I secretly wish they’d forget.
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Summary
Parenting is a rollercoaster of emotions, oscillating between joyful engagement and moments of frustration. The best days are filled with connection and cherished memories, while the tougher days can lead to exasperation and chaos. Embracing the good, and learning from the not-so-great, makes the journey worthwhile.
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