As the back-to-school season approaches, I find it has a vibe similar to January—a fresh start with new promises. Each year, I set the same goals: punctuality for school, never misplacing permission slips, and preparing lunches the night before (yes, right). This fall, however, I’m determined to introduce some new resolutions, drawing from my past experiences as a seasoned parent. Here’s what I’m committing to:
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I’ll Embrace the Power of NO.
After 12 years of parenting through elementary, middle, and high school, I’ve transitioned from that eager kindergarten mom willing to volunteer for every role to a more seasoned parent who knows her limits. The days of feeling guilty for declining requests are over. I’ve found my tribe among fellow parents who are just as burnt out as I am—those of us who’ve done it all and are now looking for fresh faces to take the reins. So, to all the enthusiastic younger parents—be my guest and organize the class parties while I take a much-needed break at yoga. -
I’ll Let My Kids Navigate Their Mornings Alone.
I know this sounds ambitious, but I’m ready to give it a shot. I realize my tendency to micromanage the morning chaos has turned me into a frazzled mom. It’s time to trust my kids to handle their morning routines. I’m committed to keeping my mouth shut (maybe I’ll need some duct tape) and allowing them to wake up, eat, and gather their belongings for school without my constant supervision. We can do this, right? At least until Halloween. -
I’ll Support My Teen’s Aspirations, Not Mine.
As my oldest entered high school, I had my own vision for his education—specific classes, tracks, and colleges. But I’ve come to understand that he is capable of discovering his own path. Whether he decides to pursue teaching or focus on his love for English, I need to step back and allow him to make his own choices. His interests may evolve, but the decisions will be his, not influenced by me. It’s time to let go and trust the journey he’ll take in the next few years. -
I’ll Step Back from Homework Projects.
Who hasn’t seen a project that screams “parent involvement”? I’ve learned that jumping in to help with science fairs, history displays, or book reports only undermines my kids’ independence. With four children, I’ve become quite adept at saying no to last-minute project pleas. It’s better for them to learn through their failures now than to rely on me when they’re older. A little struggle now prepares them for the bigger challenges ahead. -
I’ll Cherish My Youngest Child’s Elementary Years.
While I may feel “over it” as a school mom, it’s crucial that my youngest doesn’t feel that way. He’s often at a disadvantage, from hand-me-downs to missed milestones. I want to ensure his school experiences are celebrated just as enthusiastically as those of his older siblings. So, whether it’s dressing up for “Saint Day” or attending school plays for the umpteenth time, I will participate with joy, capturing every moment. His firsts deserve the same excitement I once had, and who knows, maybe these moments will be the best.
In conclusion, as I embark on this new school year, I’ll embrace my limits, support my kids’ autonomy, and savor every precious moment with my youngest. Parenting is a journey filled with lessons, and I’m ready to approach it with a fresh perspective.
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