After welcoming my daughter into the world, I joyfully returned to work just three months later. The subsequent six months were filled with a rollercoaster of emotions—while I felt fulfilled, I also found myself daydreaming about career changes, quitting my job, or simply escaping. But then, a beacon of opportunity appeared: a job opening at a company that felt like a perfect fit. I was both terrified and excited when I landed an interview.
I prepped extensively—researching the company, combing through their website, and scouring Google for every piece of information I could find. I ensured I got a good night’s sleep, maintained a healthy diet, and even worked out. I treated myself to a fresh haircut and highlights—money was no object (at least until the next week, when my husband and I resorted to cereal for dinner). I picked out an outfit with the help of my trendiest friends. I was ready.
Lessons Learned
But then, the big day arrived. Here are some lessons I learned that I hope will help other new mothers:
- Prioritize Alone Time: Make sure to drop your little one off at their preferred childcare before preparing. I made the mistake of keeping my energetic daughter home with me. While trying to get ready, she decided to have a mini-adventure, which included an attempt to leap off the bed. Chaos ensued, and I ended up neglecting my makeup routine as I focused on her instead.
- Don’t Postpone Your Prep: I foolishly thought I could save my makeup application for later, reasoning that I had plenty of time before the interview. Instead, I found myself in a frantic situation, applying concealer in the parking lot of an Office Depot with mere minutes to spare—definitely not ideal!
- For Breastfeeding Moms: Plan ahead! Pump before you leave home and ensure all your pump’s components are with you. I learned this the hard way and ended up in a less-than-ideal situation, pumping over the kitchen sink while dressed for my interview. Talk about a wake-up call!
- Plan Your Route: Don’t rely solely on your phone’s GPS. I learned this when mine failed at a crucial moment, leaving me scrambling to find my way while panicking about my makeup application (see point 2).
- Just Breathe: While the pressure of your first interview might feel overwhelming, remember that it’s just one step on your journey. There are plenty of opportunities ahead, and you are more than just a mom; you are valuable, capable, and deserving of success. In the wise words of Florence and the Machine, shake off those nerves and embrace your incredible self—one interview at a time.
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In summary, preparing for your first post-baby interview can be daunting, but with the right strategies, you can approach it with confidence and poise.
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