Unless you’ve been living under a rock or unplugged from social media, you’ve likely heard about Netflix’s gripping series, Making a Murderer. I resisted diving in for as long as possible, still caught up in a binge-watch of another series. However, when my daughter, a college sophomore back home for winter break, suggested we watch it together, I couldn’t refuse. After all, when your college kid wants to bond over anything, you jump at the chance. Thus began our marathon viewing session, and we were instantly hooked.
Living in Minnesota, the Midwestern quirks depicted in the show didn’t distract us as they might have for others. Those in certain areas of Minnesota, Michigan, or Wisconsin may recognize characters like the Avery family from their own lives. I didn’t even notice the subtitles until a friend mentioned them on Facebook. Initially, the nostalgia of the ’90s Midwest—complete with mullets and oversized glasses—was amusing. But soon, the gripping narrative took center stage.
Overview of the Series
For those yet to watch, here’s a brief overview: Steven Avery, a Wisconsin man, was wrongfully convicted of sexual assault and attempted murder in 1985, serving 18 years before DNA evidence exonerated him, pointing to another suspect. While not a paragon of virtue—his past was marred by various legal troubles—his case had glaring inconsistencies. Just two years post-release, following his lawsuit against Manitowoc County officials, he found himself arrested again, this time for the murder of 25-year-old photographer Teresa Halbach. I won’t spoil any further details; you’ll need to see it for yourself.
A Maternal Perspective
As a mom with nearly 22 years of experience, I view everything through a maternal lens, and this series was no exception. My heart went out to Dolores Avery, Steven’s mother, who spoke of visiting her son in prison, saying, “Even when it was icy, I drove there.” Anyone familiar with our frigid winters knows that such a drive is no small feat, but a mother’s love knows no bounds.
Barb, the mother of teenager Brendan Dassey, also left a profound impact on me. Brendan, who becomes entangled in the investigation of Halbach’s murder, is a heartbreaking figure. Their recorded phone conversations reveal the depth of their bond, with Barb’s reassurance, “You’re not stupid to me,” striking a deep chord. For any mom who has comforted a child plagued by self-doubt, those words resonate powerfully.
Each mother featured in this somber, yet captivating, narrative faces unimaginable challenges—from Dolores’s prison visits to Barb’s emotional breakdown amidst relentless reporters, to Teresa Halbach’s own mother, who suffers a profound loss. These maternal stories illuminate the vast differences in our lives, highlighting the resources available (or not) to us as parents, and how socioeconomic factors shape our children’s futures.
Reflections on Parenting
The entire saga unfolds like a fitted sheet tumbling from a linen closet—a perplexing mess that defies logic. If you haven’t seen it yet, I highly recommend giving it a watch. It will evoke anger, sadness, and perhaps even a new perspective on your own life. After witnessing the struggles depicted, the pile of dirty dishes in my teenager’s room didn’t feel like such a personal affront anymore. And yes—I hugged my kids. Tight.
In the context of parenting, this series offers insights that extend beyond mere entertainment. It encourages reflection on our own family dynamics and challenges. For those interested in exploring more about parenting options, check out this post on couples’ fertility journeys and learn about the Cryobaby home insemination kit, an authority on this topic. For those considering pregnancy, Healthline is an excellent resource.
In summary, Making a Murderer pulls viewers into a world of complex emotions and difficult realities, showcasing the resilience of motherhood amidst chaos.
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