As the season of hot cocoa, cozy sweaters, and festive lights approaches, I find myself perplexed by my sons’ choice of attire. Despite the winter chill, they often dress as if we’re enjoying a sunny day at the beach.
Having navigated more than 40 years on this planet and over a decade of motherhood, I’ve come to accept that there are some things I’ll never grasp. Quantum physics, for instance, remains a mystery to me, as does the allure of watching unboxing videos on YouTube. But nothing puzzles me quite like the determination of tween and teen boys to wear shorts and t-shirts in frigid December weather.
To be fair, my children rarely voice their discomfort about the cold. They’ve learned that expressing any hint of shivering will result in my disapproving glare. So, their mantra seems to be, “If we get cold, we’ll eventually dress warmer.” But let’s be honest: these stubborn kids would rather endure the cold than admit their mom had a point about needing hats and gloves.
What truly frustrates me, however, isn’t their choice in clothing or my concerns about them catching a chill. It’s the unsolicited comments from those around us. For example, no, grocery store cashier, my son won’t catch a cold just because he’s coatless; that’s not how colds work. If he gets sick, it’ll be from the germs he encounters in his classroom, not from braving the outdoors without a jacket.
And yes, Aunt Marge, I do provide my kids with coats, hats, and gloves. They simply choose not to wear them, and I’ve opted to let them experience the consequences of their decisions (being uncomfortably cold) in hopes that it encourages better choices in the future.
To a stranger on the street, I can’t simply “make” my 11-year-old wear a coat. At his size, it would be quite a task to force him into one, and I wouldn’t want to. It’s important to respect their autonomy.
One of the most significant lessons I’ve learned in parenting is to choose my battles wisely. This is one that I am not willing to fight. So here we are: temperatures hovering in the mid-30s, frost on the ground, and snow predicted, while my sons proudly sport their shorts and t-shirts. I resist the urge to tell them to dress appropriately.
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In summary, while my sons may prefer to endure the cold in their chosen attire, I’ve decided to step back and allow them to learn from their choices. It’s a matter of autonomy and understanding that not every battle is worth fighting.
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