Until recently, I was unaware of the existence of International Walk to School Day. It’s surprising to find out that such days exist alongside National Coloring Book Day and National Carrot Cake Day. Nevertheless, International Walk to School Day is indeed a significant event, where numerous children, parents, and educators gather to walk together along popular routes to school. Local news outlets often cover the event, interviewing parents and capturing moments for their publications. However, for my family and several others in our vicinity, this event extends beyond just a day; it comprises a month and even a year of walking to school.
Every morning and afternoon, my children, along with a handful of friends from the neighborhood, embark on their journey to and from school—independently and without adult supervision. In today’s world of overprotective parenting and structured playdates, it’s uncommon for children to walk to school alone. Yet, my kids—ranging from first to fifth grade—manage this nearly every day (we do carpool on rainy days). They traverse a 3/4-mile distance, mostly unsupervised, relying on crossing guards at two intersections along the way. It’s an experience that is nothing short of amazing.
To clarify, I want to emphasize that I am not exposing my children to immediate danger. They are well-acquainted with the route, the importance of sticking together, and the basics of traffic safety and stranger danger. Contrary to prevalent fears surrounding abductions and crime, statistics reveal that childhood is safer now than it has been in decades—even safer than during the 1970s and 1980s when walking to school was a norm and latchkey kids were widespread.
Walking to school independently not only proves to be safe in many neighborhoods but also offers a plethora of benefits that wouldn’t be available if they were driven or accompanied by adults. For instance, it allows them a break from the often strictly scheduled environment they experience at school and home. Their daily 25-minute walks serve as essential moments of freedom, promoting their development and offering them a chance to unwind from the structured demands of their day.
Moreover, this unsupervised journey fosters valuable social skills among the children. They look out for one another in a manner that differs from when adults are present to supervise their actions. My youngest son, who is in first grade, sometimes finds the walk tiring after a full day of learning. He may lag behind, take his time, and collect little treasures from the sidewalk. While older kids might feel impatient, they remain together, ensuring that they all look out for each other. One of my primary responsibilities as a parent is to cultivate independence and self-sufficiency in my children. To achieve this, they must have opportunities to exercise their independence. During this relatively short walk, they can experience childhood and practice being self-reliant in a safe, albeit unsupervised, environment. Will they encounter challenges along the way? Certainly, but growing up involves navigating those challenges, and independence often requires some trial and error.
The advantages extend beyond just my children; I also benefit significantly. With my children leaving for school earlier and returning later, I gain over an hour of extra time to prepare for their return. Perhaps most importantly, it liberates me from the chaos of the carpool line.
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In summary, allowing children to walk to school independently not only fosters their development and social skills but also offers parents valuable time and a break from daily commutes. It’s a win-win situation that promotes growth for both children and parents alike.
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