Don’t Be Dismissive About Participation Awards

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Let’s set the scene: It’s early morning, and you’re gearing up for your first half marathon. After months of dedicated training, you’re finally here, and the excitement is palpable. As you receive your bib number and prepare to stretch, nerves begin to flutter. Can you actually do this?

Then the race starts. Your pace might resemble a brisk walk rather than a smooth run, but this event isn’t solely about speed or elegance; it’s about achieving a goal. And guess what? You’re almost there! The crowd has thinned out, and while everyone receives a medal for their efforts, you can’t wait to capture that finish line moment for social media.

Crossing the finish line leaves you breathless, but instead of a medal, you’re met with just a pat on the back from a volunteer. You trained hard, invested time, and all you get is a lukewarm “good job”? Frustration bubbles up as you realize that this isn’t the recognition you expected.

Ah, the irony of adulthood: we often reward ourselves for participation without labeling it as such. While we criticize the younger generation for needing validation, we indulge in our own forms of participation trophies—whether it’s through a comforting glass of wine, binge-watching our favorite shows, or even indulging in self-care activities. In this sense, we’re all participants in our own right.

My competitive spirit doesn’t diminish my empathy towards children. Years ago, I volunteered with a group of young girls. Not all were eager, yet every single one contributed to making our environment better. At the end of the year, each girl received a personalized certificate and a small token of appreciation. It was crucial to convey, “I acknowledge your efforts.”

Walking through life alone can be utterly disheartening. It’s essential to recognize that no one achieves success in isolation. Acknowledging participation does not shield children from experiencing failure; rather, it prepares them for life’s challenges. The harsh realities of growing up will inevitably come, but I want to create a nurturing environment for children while they still can enjoy their magical childhoods filled with joy and whimsy.

As adults, we should be supportive of children striving, not just winning. Until we relinquish our own participation medals—whether they be in the form of accolades or indulgences—I’ll continue to celebrate every child’s efforts. For all the kids out there giving their best, you’re seen and appreciated.

In conclusion, recognizing participation is important, as it helps foster a supportive environment for children. While competition has its place, it’s essential to emphasize effort and growth over mere outcomes.

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