Dear Oliver,

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Today marks the milestone of you being 6 months old. It feels surreal that half a year has already passed since your arrival, yet it also feels as though you’ve been a part of our family for an eternity.

Reflecting on these past months, I can confidently say I feel incredibly fortunate. You are truly a remarkable baby, possessing a calm and serene disposition that I hope remains with you throughout your life. From the moment you entered this world, you have brought nothing but peace and happiness into our lives. As I try to recall the times you’ve cried, I find it hard to remember more than a handful of occasions. You eat, sleep, and smile—much to the delight of everyone around you. As your father often says, “You can’t spell smiles without Oliver.”

Your happiness radiates when you’re surrounded by those who love you. Kissing your chubby cheeks and witnessing the joy in your eyes as you grin is a treasure like no other.

I knew from the moment I discovered I was pregnant that accepting this was our final chapter with babies would be challenging. However, you are our last little one, and I am endlessly grateful to have you. Your delightful personality allows me to savor each moment. Over the last seven years, I’ve often heard from well-meaning strangers, “Enjoy this; it goes too fast.” While I used to find this phrase annoying, I now realize how true it is, and I’m thankful for the reminder as I cherish these fleeting moments.

I vividly recall the day your older sister turned 6 months old. I dressed her in a fancy party dress for a celebration, even though we weren’t going anywhere, and wrapped up a mountain of gifts for her. I was eager for her to reach new milestones like crawling and walking. Then, in the blink of an eye, I found myself shopping for first-grade supplies.

Understanding how quickly time passes, I am genuinely making an effort to relish every second. There are times I feel like I’m racing against the clock, yet you make it easy to pause and appreciate our time together. Even during busy days filled with activities under sweltering heat, your smile remains a constant source of joy.

As I wrestle with the bittersweet realization that you are my last baby, I can’t help but feel emotional. Those moments spent swaddling you are memories I will hold dear, even as you wriggle free. When you snuggle into my arms at bedtime instead of settling in your crib, it’s as if you know how much I want to cherish these last few nights with you close by.

While I recognize that it’s time for you to transition out of our room, each morning I am greeted by your bright smile, making it all the more difficult. If I could, I would gather your siblings and hold them in the nursery one more time.

I celebrate each of your milestones with excitement, but there is also a touch of sadness, knowing that every first means saying goodbye to cherished stages of my life. While I will always cheer you on, I will do so with a hint of nostalgia because you are my last baby.

My wish for you is to carry this joy throughout your life. Your happiness is contagious, and in these past six months, I’ve noticed that everyone around you seems to smile a little more. The joy you bring to our family is unparalleled. Thank you, Oliver, for completing our family in such a special way.

Love, Mom

In Summary

The journey of parenting can be both joyful and bittersweet, especially with a last child. Each moment spent with your baby is a treasure, and celebrating milestones brings both joy and nostalgia. Cherishing these fleeting moments helps parents appreciate the unique bond they share with their children.

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