As I sat in front of my computer, contemplating the blue Facebook icon, I found myself questioning whether I should share my daughter’s recent achievement. Just this week, I received the exciting news that my daughter, Emily, a college senior set to graduate next month, was inducted into Phi Beta Kappa, the most esteemed academic honor society in the United States.
Emily has truly worked diligently for this recognition. She’s a near straight-A student, established a new club on campus, and has held an internship at the career center for the past year and a half. She has earned every bit of this honor.
As soon as I heard the news, I eagerly called my husband, who stepped out of a meeting just to celebrate with me. I also reached out to her grandparents, aunt, and uncles via email, wanting to share my joy far and wide. But then, I hesitated.
Let’s be honest: publicizing my daughter’s achievement on Facebook could come off as boasting, perhaps even too much so. I worried about how it might be perceived by friends whose children are facing challenges or are on different paths. I know what it’s like to experience tough times with kids—when they make poor choices or face setbacks. There have been moments when I had little to report or when the news was far from positive, like accidents or academic failures.
Yet, I was genuinely elated about Emily’s induction and somewhat taken aback. My husband and I were not standout students; we were average kids who attended average colleges. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that; it reflects the ordinary rhythm of life filled with work, family, and moments of joy interspersed among the mundane.
It is natural for parents to believe their children are exceptional and destined for greatness. While many will likely lead average lives with occasional bursts of brilliance, it raises the question: Is it acceptable to share their standout moments on social media?
This has been a point of contention for me. I genuinely enjoy when friends celebrate their children’s successes, whether through social media or other channels. Do I sometimes feel a twinge of envy? Certainly. But overwhelmingly, I feel joy for them, which far outweighs any fleeting jealousy.
I asked a friend for her perspective on sharing accomplishments on social media. “I don’t just want to be there for the tough times,” she replied. “I want to hear about the good things too.”
I like to think that my friend represents the general sentiment among my circle. My Facebook network is diverse, ranging from long-time acquaintances to close friends, each dealing with their own set of challenges. While many share highlights, it’s clear that social media often glosses over the real struggles of life. (Of course, some friends tend to share every unfortunate event, which can feel invasive.)
I pondered whether my writing friends, acquaintances, and community members needed to hear about Emily’s achievement. I recognized the convenience of posting once rather than reaching out personally, as I often forget to tell friends who aren’t on Facebook about significant news. Plus, I felt confident that the majority would be happy for my daughter, just as I felt for their children during their successes.
With my fingers hovering above the keyboard, I composed my post, read it over, and after a moment’s deliberation, I hit ‘Post.’
In summary, sharing your child’s achievements on social media can be a delicate decision. While it may feel like boasting, many friends appreciate hearing about both the highs and the lows of parenting. Ultimately, celebrating your child’s accomplishments can foster connection and joy among friends and family.
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