I have a confession to make: I really struggle with social media. Although I manage a personal Facebook account, a professional page, a Twitter handle, and an Instagram, I hardly keep up with any of them. Why? Because life with a toddler is unpredictable, as is my schedule. While I do have these platforms on my phone, I try to limit my usage around my child to be more present. I want to model that behavior for her, and I also want to shield her from some of the content that floods my feed.
Recently, a close friend confronted me about my apparent absence on their social media, and I felt a wave of sadness and frustration. Just because I don’t react to your latest photo, comment on your status, or share your memes doesn’t mean I don’t appreciate them or that I’m unhappy with you. It’s often just an oversight or a moment of distraction. Your posts can easily get lost in the shuffle of my feed.
I understand that social media has transformed the way we connect. When you share milestones, it’s to foster connection; you want to keep your circle close. I recognize that our fast-paced lives heighten our desire for immediate acknowledgment. We all crave that instant gratification and the basic human need for love and acceptance. I certainly feel that too—there’s nothing more disheartening than pouring your heart into a post only to be met with silence.
However, the idea that “likes” and comments equate to genuine support or care is misleading. This notion is a product of modern social dynamics, reminiscent of high school cliques. It’s a mentality I find exhausting and reminiscent of the insecurities I faced back in school. I care deeply about your life—your achievements, your family, your dreams—but the culture surrounding social media has become overwhelming. Likes and shares have become automatic responses, and the expectation surrounding them has diluted their significance to the point where a lack of engagement is misinterpreted as indifference.
I’m genuinely sorry if my silence on social media hurt you. Please know that it doesn’t reflect how I feel about our friendship. Sometimes, I’m just caught up in the chaos of parenting or the demands of daily life. It’s not about the quality of your posts. It simply means I’m navigating my own whirlwind of responsibilities.
Perhaps we could shift our focus from online interactions to more personal communication. Let’s agree to connect through texts or calls, allowing for more meaningful conversations. I care about you deeply, and I want to express that in ways that matter beyond the digital realm.
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In summary, my online silence doesn’t reflect my feelings toward our friendship. Life can be hectic, and I want to make an effort to connect in more meaningful ways.
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